lol wow i love this site already i feel well ........ welcomed .. cheers

i get the mood swings off her anyway lol but ill make sure i stay extra patient (Y)

she doesnt know im on here yet i discovered it last night...
What sort of time would you guys (not literally) suggest to tell the parents ect.. i have spoken to her but i can understand what she's saying she says it will just add stress to the situation..
i really want her to see im trying because i really want it to work

So books,lots ov hugs, flowers, and just altogether treat her like a princess right?


thanks in advance ladies

oh the baby is due on christmas day

if you treat her like a princess you will be loved for ever ha ha!

is lovely to see you so committed good luck to you both and I hope you are all very happy together x

Is up to you when you tell parents as it is individual choice some people like to wait for their scans and some are just bursting to tell their wonderful news so make the decision between both of you when you think it is best x

thanks
ill have a chat with her


also obviously im worried about money i will be starting a motor vehicle technition apprenticeship in september (fingers crossed) which will pay reasonably lol just thought id write that lol

Congrats on ur pregnancy!! Sounds like you've got ur priorities straight.

About telling the parents - I'd wait a week or 2, let yourself and ur gf get used to the changes and the idea of it.

People do surprise you though if you're worried - I thought that my parents and everyone would be a bit iffy about my pregnancy (even though I am 20) but everyone's been really supportive (and excited).

aww ur such a sweet bf- i wish mine was more like that lol.
erm id say just read up on pregnancy really so tht u understand what she's goin through and when she has mood swings understand tht she cant help it and try and keep her stress levels as low as possible by not causing uneccessary arguments. just carry on being a good bf to her. ur already doin a good job by showin ur concern for ur gf on this forum, so i guess shes lucky anyway, and i think its so gd of u the way u seem to have accepted it so easily without complainin. congratulations btw!x

Just being there for her and baby will be enough. Some chocolate would probably be an added bonus though

It's upto you both when you tell parents. Some people wait until the 12 week scan though to make sure everything is ok with baby ect.

Yes, most people wait until the 1st trimester has past...just incase of miscarrage etc...but then again...I was NEVER one of those people! So when I did miscarry I had lots of support...so it really is up to you!

Whatever you decide, just remember that we are here for you both even if you dont have anyone else! We dont judge!
Keep us posted on how it goes ok?

Congratulations!
Ditto to what everybody else has said....
Good luck with the apprenticeship. Fingers crossed all the way!