I think it's just hormones. You're still really early. When you see your little one on that screen, you'll feel it.

I'm so sorry to hear about your awful past. It must have been a hard thing to come through.

All i can advise is, give it time. You've said yourself that your OH is a wonderful man, completely different to your ex. Just think about what an amazing father he will be to his own child is he's so good with yours. Just think about the future, focus on the good things. Hopefully, as the pregnancy develops and you see scans etc, you might become more excited.

I really hope things work out for you. Ans remember, we're always here for you to vent.

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I felt like abit like that after I split with the ex.. used it against him and alsorts but after seeing the pics, I couldn't love it anymore..

I was exactly the same when i first found out. I felt numb and that there was something worng with me because i wasnt bonding in a way with thr baby.

It WILL pass. Ones you get ur head around it

Ditto what everyone's said. I think you will start to feel differently when it sinks in. What was OH's reaction to the news?

That's really sweet. I'm sure you'll take to the idea once it's sunk in. Especially as OH is so much more supportive and generally a nicer guy than your ex. I think, even though we're over our ex's, their behaviour can sometimes still leave some worries. Sending big

I obviously dont understand what you're going through, but i know that i felt numb to begin with and to be honnast the scan didnt to me make it feel any difference (maybe i'm totally heartless) but the thing that makes me happy wierdly enough is planning and thinking of christmas with a baby and thinking of my OH holding his baby and how happy he is going to be and what a great daddy he is going to make.

I dont know if that will help you but it helps me Also it sounds as though you've got a good guy this time

I'm still a bit numb about it. I feel like I'm telling a big lie every time someone asks me if I'm pregnant haha because I don't feel like its real. You will eventually wrap your head around it...and be happy because you are bringing a new life into the world with a man who obviously loves you and your children.