Hi Guys and Girls

just wondering how many of you have decided at this point whether or not to find out the sex. In my particular case, i wouldnt say money is emensly tight but i cant throw it around you know.

i would like to have the surprise......but in the same breath i think in terms of spreading out the costs of buying certain things and that, i'd like to know so we can better prepare ourselves. did i mention that i am proper impatient too

i dunno what to do, me OH wants to wait.....but at the moment we're unsure on what to do

Finding out has made me feel so much closer to her. Just remember, if you find out, you can't undo it. If you don't find out, you can always get the person doing the scan to write it on a bit of paper, and if you change your mind, you can look.

I'm going to find out.. then if the ex still wants to know, i'll tell him..

Lets go July 7th!!!! I'm impatient as hell, there's no way I can keep that a surprise until December! It just simply isn't going to happen. Here's to hoping he/she isn't stubbron like his/her mother and will cooperate!!!

see thought about this, me finding out but not the gf......but she's gonna clock on when i start buying pink clothes and that aint she lol

We have decided we want to know, November is ages away!!!!

i know what you mean im proper impatient too.....mid november is far too long

My OH doesnt want to find out but i kinda do,and he doesnt want a 4D scan, so we made a comprimise and i'm going to get the scan but leaving the sex to a suprise.

thought about a 4D scan and saw a few on Utube, dont really think its something that we're going to get.

lol bless.. well luckily I don't have to see / talk to my ex everyday at present so he won't know what I'm doing