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So, as it turned out, when we were talking about baby names I kind of broke one of our rules of a fair fight... I didn't even realise I'd said it, I do now, but at the time I didn't mean it the way it sounded... when he said I should have told him before that I didn't like the names (before as in, before pregnancy) I said something to the effect of "if I had have told you before would you have broken up with me and we wouldn't be having a baby together?" ... i meant it like... what does it matter if I didn't tell you before we got pregnant, because, it wouldn't have actually changed anything, I was trying to prove my point, and ended up just being a bitch instead... oppps!
So, yeah, he was pretty hurt, not so much that I'd say something like that, but, when we talked about it, he was more upset that I would even think something like that, even in sarcasm.
So... in the end... all good... we continued our discussion about baby names, still no progression on that front... its still highly frustrating that all I'm arguing for it the right to have an input on the names of my children and that I would like to be able to discuss the names at later date.