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Apr 18th, 2008, 21:34 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I was the same.. didn't want to be anywhere near my bloke, but in the end it got abit much for him =/ |
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Apr 18th, 2008, 21:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Im a cuddler I like to cuddle all the time on the couch..he's seems cool with it..Or cuddle outside on the porch..It depends.. |
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Apr 18th, 2008, 21:58 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Quote:
Originally Posted by dannyboygirl Im a cuddler I like to cuddle all the time on the couch..he's seems cool with it..Or cuddle outside on the porch..It depends.. | Me too!! |
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Apr 18th, 2008, 22:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I used to be a cuddler until I got pregnant hah |
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Apr 19th, 2008, 02:03 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Yeah, give her some alone time. Maybe she just wants to rest. I also think you should just let her know that you don't want to smother her, but you want to be there for her whenever she needs you. That way, if she pushes you away, she can know it is okay to call and change her mind. |
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Apr 19th, 2008, 13:08 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i dont want to be near anyone at all lol i a grumpy bum right now |
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Apr 19th, 2008, 13:10 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Yeah, my OH hates that I'm not cuddley anymore. When we're in bed (this isn't going to be a TMI moment don't worry guys) he gets irritated that I don't want to be anywhere near him.. |
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Apr 19th, 2008, 13:23 PM
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Originally Posted by polo_princess Me too!! | Quote:
Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH Yeah, my OH hates that I'm not cuddley anymore. When we're in bed (this isn't going to be a TMI moment don't worry guys) he gets irritated that I don't want to be anywhere near him.. | i can relate to him, as much as men arent supposed to like that lark, i really enjoyed holding my OH through the night......now we rarely do, to be honest i do miss it and hope thatg as things progress that we will again in the future.
i know its not personal, and that she's uncomfortable with it at the moment which is why i dont kcik up a fuss but i do miss it.  |
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Apr 19th, 2008, 13:38 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Ah, it must be tough for a guy to try and understand women at the best of times. LOL
Catch 22 situation here. You leave her alone tonight and she may get upset wondering why you aren't seeing her etc.
What I'd do is phone her and ask her if she wants her space tonight. If you don't come out directly and ask, it may bite you in the butt.
If she says she does want her space, don't get hurt but say that you are there for her and that you do understand. Perhaps, because you were thinking of something romantic, you could send her flowers today as well. |
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