lady_gibrill

Im scared of this as I guess a lot of new mums to be are.....

especially as u think ur safe after the 12 wk period but ur not really..

how many of u have had to go thro this horrific ordeal n how far gone was u?

Im sorry if this upsets anyone

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cheryl

Hi Hun, I was told by the doc that 1 in 5 end in an early miscarrage.
I had one last November I was 6 weeks and 3 days. I am still really scared of loosing this one. This is my 3rd I already have 2 children. I never thought in a million years I would miscarry but I did.
Luv Cheryl xxx

momandpeanut

I was told the same ! I had one jan of this year at between 7-8 weeks and im terrified everytime i get a twinge !

mBLACK

It's really not worth knowing or worrying yourself about. Alot of different places come up with alot of different numbers, I've heard 10% end in miscarriage, i've heard 5%, i've heard one out of 6, it's not worth worrying about. Stress just goes to the baby anyway.
And you need to think about it this way instead. For every 10 babies who don't go full term, 90 beautiful babies are born into the world, per se.

Vickie

Nothing is 100% safe, and yes there is a chance of having a miscarraige after the 12 week period, but the chances of it happening drop dramitically. The large majority of miscarriages happen in the first few weeks of pregnancy. Like mblack said, it really isn't good to stress yourself about this.

polo_princess

I have thought about this but decided i dont want to know

My chances are already planned out for me and what will be will be ... knowing them would just make me worry and id rather enjoy this pregnancy seeings as ive tried so so hard

dizzynic

Hi please try not to worry yourself too much about miscarriage and enjoy your pregnancy i myself have just suffered a miscarriage on 11th April after having 3 healthy pregnancys previously to be honest i never felt right from the start with this pregnancy i just had a sense that something wasnt right i was 7 weeks exactly .The loss has not put me off trying though and as soon as i can see a regular cycle i will be trying again. Take care and enjoy your pregnancy its a precious time and is there for you to dream of the happy things to come first scan , first kick, finding out the sex ,labour (not as bad as everyone thinks) and finally holding that baby in your arms theres nothing better .

Mervs Mum

After 12 wks the risk is reduced to about 1% but there is never a 'safe time'. On the one hand that means that 1 in 100 babies will m/c but on the other hand it means 99 will be fine - and think about the millions of babies born all over the world.

x

porkpie1981

I had a blighted ovum and had a d 7 C when i was nearly 13 weeks. I never bleed etc as ur body doesnt realise that its not pregnant anymore and still grows and shows symptoms eg i was sick the day b4 the d & C even tho i knew that it wasnt there anymore. There really nothing that can be done about it so please dont get urself into worring.

I think all i can do next time is get an early scan but even then things can happen. Just try and enjoy the 9 months as its easier for

P.s I know its hard tho

lady_gibrill

THANKS GUYS IM SORRY FOR UR LOSSES

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