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She's just jealous and trying to get under your skin. Politely refuse to move anything heavy and make sure you don't lash out at her ever. It's important that no one is ever able to say that you personally have a problem with her.
Ladies, I know BZ personally, and trust me this woman has been a problem in the past, and now that she is pregnant, it won't be getting any better. BZ is just upset and venting, she didn't mean for her comment to be as hateful as it sounds. Trust me, there was no reason for this woman to ask her to move anything in the office, there are plenty of guys around to do it, so she was just being rude.
i agree with you Samantha about the moving thing ..and BZ is untiled to vent if she wants ...i just think for womans who are trying to conceive and who do have weight problem ( and weight problem doesn't mean you have it because you stuff you face with nutella all day long) so i don't think it's a fair way to get back at a person because of disagreement at work...
but BZ should of course raise her concern at work about the fact she is pregnant and should not move thing anymore if she feel it can hurt her pregnancy...
As much as I understand that ...anyone from the main page will see that BabyandBump is for before baby & women who are having difficulty trying to conceive- not just the pregnancy & baby bit! So maybe a little thought into the wording should have been thought of as it was quite disrespectful.
But you know what try & look further inside a person esspecially if you know something personal about them - I was very bitter its really hard to face I'm imagining that yes she is being a bit of a bitch but deep down would never want to harm you or baby so why don't you even try to reach this woman and talk to her.
It was a bit nasty and I do apologize. I was very angry when I posted and lashed out too early. We have much deeper rooted issues beyond TTC. Future reference I will keep those to myself.
I just want to add that I can see it from Bellazucca's point of veiw why should she have to suffer even if the lady in question is having trouble ttc (though I think comment was bitchy but arent we all capable of bitchy comments!) I know this is a painful topic & I am not judging either way but I think a bit of live & let live may be called for???
It was a bit nasty and I do apologize. I was very angry when I posted and lashed out too early. We have much deeper rooted issues beyond TTC. Future reference I will keep those to myself.
no problem thank you very much it does mean a lot and say a lot about you just there . i wish you a great pregnancy journey and wish you the best outcome at work as well
It was a bit nasty and I do apologize. I was very angry when I posted and lashed out too early. We have much deeper rooted issues beyond TTC. Future reference I will keep those to myself.
Don't keep things bottled up just maybe consider the other ladies on here with a comment as you did but yes I understand its easy to lash out & say seomthing in the 'heat' hey ho we all do it and to be fair I sometimes need put in my place also you know? I just felt I needed to comment on it.
thank you very much it does mean a lot and say a lot about you just there 
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