I dont know how to explain it, but I'm hating my husband sooo much that I didnt even know If I wanted the baby to have his last name this morning. We had two big arguments. Normally he is the perfect "baby daddy". He buys what I want, makes sure I have enough rest and good food. BUT the problem comes in here. Our MAJOR differences in personality are Showing!!! We just had two really big arguments and I'm not gonna post them because I just know that everyone would agree with me and I dont wanna waste space on that. But my problem is I dont know how to just BE around him without thinking I Loathe him. He is a sweet man but very very bullheaded.

Last night we got into an argument because I brought a dog cage home that a coworker was letting me borrow and the puppy started shewing on the hard plastic pieces. As soon as I saw it I was like I dont think Im gonna leave those pieces there (easily removable) cause they are to keep the cage together (necessary) and I want to be able to return the cage in the same manner it was given. Well He got all pissy and threatened to put the cage back into my car if I didnt listen to him and let the puppy use it.

I was like uhhh we dont have the money to replace it so Im gonna take it back to her and tell her why. he gets mad and says well im not taking it to the car, you take it back yourself, you just dont listen. Im like I'm a grown woman, I dont have to listen, you can give me your opinion but its not your coworker thats letting you borrow it and if something happens to it, Ill have to work with her and feel bad cause I returned it messed up. He says well the plastic pieces are too hard for the puppy to bite through, its impossible, I'm like well even if that is the case, I'm not sure what hours of chewing on hard plastic can accomplish so the answer is no.

Im mad because I feel like its a very very dumb argument, he started it by getting mad for no reason and blowing up on me and therefor I can't stand to be in the same room with him. The argument actually went further than that and we are supposedly having and in house seperation (basically avoiding eachtother, whenever possible) because we cant talk about nothing for more than ten minutes without arguing.

It makes me mad too cause I KNOW its not just my hormones. He is being stupid and I know it. My hormones may intensify my anger but thats it. I dont know how to handle this. I feel like the only way I can cope it to leave the house whenever I can or study 24-7 to stay away from him. I can't stand being around him honestly. I fear whats gonna happen in the future if its this bad allready???? anyone else like this

do you always fight like this? my hubby sometimes is pissed at something else, and that is when our strange/nonsense fighting happen. it is always when he is pissed at something completely else. and our fight makes no sense. he does apologize after though. and this only happens sometimes.
maybe he was just pissed at something else as well that he does not want to talk about right now?

That's what I'm thinking, and he just doesnt want to admit it, cause the fight made no sense at all and he picked it........The argument we had the day before was like that too, to be honest.

the arguement before that was because I asked him to either ask me or let me know he was having company over, even when Im sleep cause I walk around the house VERY comfortably and I dont want his friends seeing me. it has almost happened twice and its very annoying, we had a HUGE argument about that too. I think he is picking these arguments, the question is, DO I really wanna know why???

hi not much to add but didnt wanna read and run, me and oh had a massive row this morning over our puppy too not over chewing but she's 5mths old and still p'ing in the house, she just dont learn, i've tried everything and oh answer is just keep her in her cage, she's in her cage all day while i'm at work so it's unfair to keep her in there all the time, but it's also unfair on me to cope with 2kids+ 1 on the way and 2 dogs, i'm just so tired all the time and whenever i bring up the subject of finding the pup a new home he wont hear of it, it's alright for him he's at work till 11pm most nights so he doesn't deal with it but coping with it all and a new baby? i was shouting and crying at him this morning saying i'm leaving if he doesnt agree to get rid of the dog, then he just laughs and says it's my hormones

my OH and i sum times fight like that and it lasts for a week but then we get over it and we are fine again. hope u guys work it out ..

I can imagine. I take care of our puppy most of the time. hubby is at work and in school. Thank God puppy is a good boy and the only thing that I am sometimes too tired of is walking him daily then when hubby walks him, i feel so good that i can rest. But then I miss them so much that I actually wanna walk with them but a puppy and 2 kids i can hardly imagine. it must be difficult.

My husband takes a alot of crap from me I am so unstable. I hope you guys make up

I just really think it is your hormones, I think I'm pregnant with my third, I found out soon enough, but with my hormones and with everyone else you will be more angry/moody towards your hubby or partner, I can guarantee that, it's nothing to do with your relationship in a bad, but it is good as you both are sharing the experience together, whether fighting or happy smiles. It is all good. It's a journey of developing a new baby that you have made together. It is all normal and great! Things will get better and you stating you have a great hubby to make sure you have great meals etc. I would just say more so it is very normal and just a minor symptom of pregnancy. Enjoy your pregnancy.

I wanted to karate chop my bf in his adam's apple because he asked me where something was. Maybe give him time to cool off as perhaps he is secretly worrying about how he's goin to take care of you and the new baby.

I was almost going to start a new thread about this because right now I am so sick of my OH I don't want to be around him either. I feel like most of the time he's being selfish and only thinking about what he wants - for example he'll go to the pub instead of spending time he's promised to me. The lads seem to come before me and have done for the past 2 weeks, and I know it's not just my hormones, I'm 100% sure this would piss me off even if I weren't pregnant.

He hasn't even slept at home lately because he's been crashing at his mates' houses. This is really frustrating to me because I feel like I should be number one at a time like this. When I say something about it he blows up at me massively. Won't talk to me, won't take my calls, won't even come home. It's my first midwife appointment today and saying as he didn't come home last night, I don't even know if he'll turn up.

If he doesn't turn up for this appointment, I'll be more than furious. Since I got pregnant he's just become a total dick to me.