Hating Husband right now - Page 2

I<3paul · Jan 27th, 2010, 06:18 AM

If you're pregs you really need your husband to be there for you. You should sit down and talk to him properly, when you've calmed down. Say you don't like fighting with him and you love him but you feel really emotional all the time and get angry for no reason.

It's hard for him too, i you're getting annoyed all the time at little things. He's only human, just cos you're pregs doesnt mean he's going to be the perfect husband and let you get away with sayin anything to him.

He needs to respect that you're pregs and hormonal and you need to respect that he's living with a pregnant hormonal woman.

when you get mad, think about the nice things he's done for you whilst youve been together, think about why you married him and how you're gonna have his baby.

My fiance annoys me sometimes and i annoy him but i love him to pieces and i needed him when i was pregs and i need him now. Just talk to each other x x x x

Good luck x x x

Teeny Weeny · Jan 27th, 2010, 07:51 AM

Girls, i am in teh same boat!!! My OH annoys me massively and sometimes I wonder whether this was the right thing to do... we tried for 18 months and had to have surgery and clomid so you would think that this is meant to be the best time ever for us...but its not!
We bicker all the time and he just gets on my nerves...i read about others whose partners do the cooking, back rubs etc and I get nothing.
I know he works all day, but I am studying, looking after the puppy and my 7yr old, cooking, cleaning, ironing...

he moans I always want to go to bed early and he thinks I am miserable.

AArggh...its so damn hard sometimes...I just wanted a perfect and happy pregnancy and most of the time I am fed up!!!

I'm sure once my hormones calm down I'll feel better...FX'd anyway.

Hope all of you girls are okay. xx

Jan 27th, 2010, 06:18 AM	#11
I<3paul Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Cheshire Posts: 955	If you're pregs you really need your husband to be there for you. You should sit down and talk to him properly, when you've calmed down. Say you don't like fighting with him and you love him but you feel really emotional all the time and get angry for no reason. It's hard for him too, i you're getting annoyed all the time at little things. He's only human, just cos you're pregs doesnt mean he's going to be the perfect husband and let you get away with sayin anything to him. He needs to respect that you're pregs and hormonal and you need to respect that he's living with a pregnant hormonal woman. when you get mad, think about the nice things he's done for you whilst youve been together, think about why you married him and how you're gonna have his baby. My fiance annoys me sometimes and i annoy him but i love him to pieces and i needed him when i was pregs and i need him now. Just talk to each other x x x x Good luck x x x

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Jan 27th, 2010, 07:51 AM	#12
Teeny Weeny Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Kent, England Posts: 866	Girls, i am in teh same boat!!! My OH annoys me massively and sometimes I wonder whether this was the right thing to do... we tried for 18 months and had to have surgery and clomid so you would think that this is meant to be the best time ever for us...but its not! We bicker all the time and he just gets on my nerves...i read about others whose partners do the cooking, back rubs etc and I get nothing. I know he works all day, but I am studying, looking after the puppy and my 7yr old, cooking, cleaning, ironing... he moans I always want to go to bed early and he thinks I am miserable. AArggh...its so damn hard sometimes...I just wanted a perfect and happy pregnancy and most of the time I am fed up!!! I'm sure once my hormones calm down I'll feel better...FX'd anyway. Hope all of you girls are okay. xx

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