sao

hi there...

i thought id post here to tell you all about my day
i had my "12 week" scan today at almost 14 weeks but i was happy when i saw on the screen my test,which i wasn't to pleased about as i have already decided that weather theres a high risk or not i don't want to have an abortion or an amniocentesis. But i was told i had no choice so i went off for the blood test, they took 30mins to find a vein when they finally found one in my hand they tried to take blood from it and it popped. It was so painful i ended up throwing up all over my self only half with it. Feeling rather upset i begged them not to try again explaining yet again that i really didn't want to know as it wouldn't change my mind at all. The midwife taking my bloods suddenly when into a panic, explaining that i was forced to gothrough all that when i really didn't need it. Finally i was allowed to go home without the blood test and feeling very tired and ill. I finally thought it was over and went home feeling happier as i showed my family my scan pictures, when i started feeling really quite sharp pains in my lower tummy that are slowly getting worse so much so that i can't stand up anymore and i've had slight bleeding, my mum has sent me to bed atm and we are just waiting to see what happens i just feel so useless and really don't know what to do.
sorry for my moan i'm just so worried and didn't know who else to talk to about it and felt
it was a good idea to post here


saoxx

miel

so sorry sweetie sounds like a very hard day for you today ...try to relax and keep us posted.

Sweetie

Sorry to hear that things are rough. Hope that you start to feel better, sending hugs and good thoughs your way.

coccyx

Sorry you have had a bad day. Surely they cannot demand you have a blood test if you have declined. Its your body, how dare they!

rae05

What an awful day. I hope you feel better soon and hope that tomorrow is much better

sao

thanks girlies thank you for your replies just had a warm bath and feel slightly better just hoping everything is ok

saoxx

pocahontas35

I hope everything is okay too. Get more rest and keep us posted.

XKatX

I can't believe they made you do that, the pigs! when I have a stressful or tiring day, I find that I'm more crampy and painful. I spent the day on a massive shopping spree yesterday and although it wasn't stressful, it was really tiring! By the time I got home I was in a lot of pain. These things are just signs from our bodies that we need to chill and take time for ourselves. We are no longer the superwomen that we were a few months ago!
Hope you feel a lot better soon x

Jenelle

Aww hun, I hope you are feeling better... sounds like a rough day

Mervs Mum

Sorry you had a rough day - how are you feeling today ??



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