apparently i'm a disappointment!

bambino · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:16 PM

Lol, i can kind of see the funny side but the news did not go down too well with my partners parents. due to the fact that we are not married and don't live together at the moment, i think his mum had a bit of a panic attack when my OH announced the news. We are both mid twenties and in good jobs so i dont see what the problem is other than the fact that we are engaged and not married.We have been looking for a house since before i got pregnant but have not found anything yet. It was not a planned pregnancy but i just wish she would have thought about what she said before saying it. My family are over the moon which im happy about so trying not to let his mums reaction get to me.

cheryl · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:19 PM

Oh hun I am sure they will come round soon.
I would just ignore them hun.
Luv Cheryl xxx

nikky0907 · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:21 PM

How conservative of them.

You guys are in love,you'll have your own home and provide well for your child.A piece of paper means nothing.
Don't worry,she'll start treating you better once she realises that you are carrying HER granchild.

Mynxie · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:23 PM

ignore her huni, sounds like a snob xx

bambino · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:25 PM

bambino · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:29 PM

yeah i know it's a bit old fashioned and stuff and i could understand if we didnt have jobs etc but we are in a good position to have a baby and will be great parents, she just needs a reality check i think. I was so offended and had a cry but to be honest, i think she will calm down and i hope she does. It's just horrible tho when you are so excited and someone takes the wind from your sails! Thanks for the support tho, i appreciate it! xx

Serene123 · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:32 PM

**Vickie** · Mar 29th, 2008, 16:45 PM

I'm sure she'll come around in the end

Samantha675 · Mar 29th, 2008, 18:25 PM

Oh hun that is a shame, but she will get over it soon, and probably drive you nuts with her excitment.

Kayles1/8/08 · Mar 29th, 2008, 18:25 PM

apparently im a lowlife according to my brother ..
wouldn't be normal if there wasnt someone there trying to ruin things for u!!
enjoy it .. its ur first time!

Mar 29th, 2008, 16:16 PM	#1
bambino Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: uk - north East Posts: 751	apparently i'm a disappointment! Lol, i can kind of see the funny side but the news did not go down too well with my partners parents. due to the fact that we are not married and don't live together at the moment, i think his mum had a bit of a panic attack when my OH announced the news. We are both mid twenties and in good jobs so i dont see what the problem is other than the fact that we are engaged and not married.We have been looking for a house since before i got pregnant but have not found anything yet. It was not a planned pregnancy but i just wish she would have thought about what she said before saying it. My family are over the moon which im happy about so trying not to let his mums reaction get to me.

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Mar 29th, 2008, 16:19 PM	#2
cheryl Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,414	Oh hun I am sure they will come round soon. I would just ignore them hun. Luv Cheryl xxx

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Mar 29th, 2008, 16:21 PM	#3
nikky0907 Mum (Mom) Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: New England, USA Posts: 11,326	How conservative of them. You guys are in love,you'll have your own home and provide well for your child.A piece of paper means nothing. Don't worry,she'll start treating you better once she realises that you are carrying HER granchild.

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Mynxie Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: In a dungeon lol Posts: 5,954	ignore her huni, sounds like a snob xx

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Mar 29th, 2008, 16:29 PM	#6
bambino Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: uk - north East Posts: 751	yeah i know it's a bit old fashioned and stuff and i could understand if we didnt have jobs etc but we are in a good position to have a baby and will be great parents, she just needs a reality check i think. I was so offended and had a cry but to be honest, i think she will calm down and i hope she does. It's just horrible tho when you are so excited and someone takes the wind from your sails! Thanks for the support tho, i appreciate it! xx

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Vickie Mum (Mom) Administrator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 75,703	I'm sure she'll come around in the end

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Samantha675 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,123	Oh hun that is a shame, but she will get over it soon, and probably drive you nuts with her excitment.

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Kayles1/8/08 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Glasgow Posts: 418	apparently im a lowlife according to my brother .. wouldn't be normal if there wasnt someone there trying to ruin things for u!! enjoy it .. its ur first time!

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