biteable

Aww hunni,hope things turn out for the best and sending you big hugs

gde78

Sounds like you're having a really tough time, just when you should be celebrating. If this is really out of character, then I agree that you should try to talk to him about what he's feeling, and why. If you don't get any joy with this, then you probably do need to think about a temporary seperation, to see if he realises how out of order he's being. Big honey. Good luck.

avistar

Personally, I would be LIVID! And put him in his place. What horrible things to say to you when you are preg! He just seems to flip flop and spit words out. Having the baby was both your decisions and I think it is very irresponsible for him not wanting to take any accountability for your being preg (that is from what I can gather, with him wanting you to get an abortion). Yeah, maybe he is scared...but he should at the VERY least apologize for saying such hurtful things...

I really feel for you and hope that you are trying not to stress too much, because that can effect your lil one...

rae05

Thanks guys, we just spent 8 hours in a car together today driving home from my parent's, and he was a LOT better. He said he loves both of us

biteable

arghh made up for you,hope you have a happy and healthy 9 mths