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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 19:53 PM   #1
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Dealing with a breakup. **update pg3**


Well it's official, the father of my bean and I are breaking up.
It's been coming for a while, but it's still going to be hard to accept.
I just don't know what I'm going to do to be honest.
It's already planning that I'll be moving in with my sister in April now, but it's going to be very hard to be a single mom right from birth.
I guess I just really need some support.


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 19:57 PM   #2
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so sorry to hear that hun..... i am sure you will be fine though theres a lot of woman that have done it and lived to tell the tale..... looks like your sister may support you through this..... and you always have us!!! all the best hun xxxxxxxxxxxx


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 19:57 PM   #3
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Sorry to hear that. I am sure things will fall into place as you go along. I am sure you are doing whats best for the bean and you. Just take care of yourself and the rest will fall into place!


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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 20:02 PM   #4
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Aww hunni, break up is not easy at the best of times, especially carrying a little bean. Take care of yourself, sounds like you have a good sister who will help you through. I know it seems hard now but you'll be amazed at where the strength comes from


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 20:07 PM   #5
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 20:13 PM   #6
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i'm so sorry to hear that... he still wants a break up even he knows that you are pregnant his child???? but i hope your decision is the best for you & your baby.... yeah, i'm sure your sister will be a good companion to you...


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 20:20 PM   #7
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i'm so sorry to hear that... he still wants a break up even he knows that you are pregnant his child???? but i hope your decision is the best for you & your baby.... yeah, i'm sure your sister will be a good companion to you...
It's me who wants the breakup. He's not someone I feel i can spend the rest of my life with, nor someone who i want to help raise my child with.
He's rude and childish and incredibly selfish, and I can no longer deal with the drama that arises from being with him.
I feel that it is best for my little bean to not have him in our lives.
I know a single mom can do it, my mom did with me for 18 years.
It's not just my sister to support me, my mom is my best friend.
It's just incredibly hard to finally make this decision.


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 20:21 PM   #8
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Sorry to hear that hun.
*hugs*


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 21:01 PM   #9
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i'm so sorry to hear that... he still wants a break up even he knows that you are pregnant his child???? but i hope your decision is the best for you & your baby.... yeah, i'm sure your sister will be a good companion to you...
It's me who wants the breakup. He's not someone I feel i can spend the rest of my life with, nor someone who i want to help raise my child with.
He's rude and childish and incredibly selfish, and I can no longer deal with the drama that arises from being with him.
I feel that it is best for my little bean to not have him in our lives.
I know a single mom can do it, my mom did with me for 18 years.
It's not just my sister to support me, my mom is my best friend.
It's just incredibly hard to finally make this decision.
so, i can say this is a good step you've made for the baby and you... less stress, and enjoy your pregnancy... luckily you have your sisted and mum with you... best of luck....


 
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Old Dec 20th, 2009, 21:48 PM   #10
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Oh that blows babe. Its gonna be hard, but I know your strong and you can make it through.
Im sure he'll be a great father, regardless.

We are all here for ya's!


 
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