Dealing with a breakup. update pg3 - Page 2

Katherine · Dec 20th, 2009, 21:55 PM

Sorry to hear that, hun. Hope you will get the support you need from you family.

karamel · Dec 21st, 2009, 02:49 AM

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Originally Posted by RinnaRoo

Oh that blows babe. Its gonna be hard, but I know your strong and you can make it through.
Im sure he'll be a great father, regardless.

We are all here for ya's!

Yes a great father indeed -- such a great father that he told me tonight "the only reason I'd play with a knife would be to give you an abortion" -- during our break up this evening.
Yeah, a wonderful father.

bek74 · Dec 21st, 2009, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by karamel

Quote:

Originally Posted by RinnaRoo

Oh that blows babe. Its gonna be hard, but I know your strong and you can make it through.
Im sure he'll be a great father, regardless.

We are all here for ya's!

Yes a great father indeed -- such a great father that he told me tonight "the only reason I'd play with a knife would be to give you an abortion" -- during our break up this evening.
Yeah, a wonderful father.

Sounds like a horrible person, yet you managed to stay with him long enough to get pregnant.
You said it has been a long time coming, it sure sounds like it.

You are lucky to have family to fall back on to help you and bean during this difficult time, with them at your side and your apparent new found strength I am sure you will land firmly on your feet.

beatnick · Dec 21st, 2009, 05:04 AM

Karamel you have been incredibly brave! Good for you thinking of you and your bean. You would not want to bring your child up with the example that being with the wrong person is the right thing to do. You will find someone perfect for you.

This time will be hard, and now is the time to gather friends and family. Your closest people will be honoured to be by your side. Delegate, involve and lean on your family. They will love being involved- I guarantee.

You have been very courageuos and you will make a great example to your future child.

jenny25 · Dec 21st, 2009, 05:13 AM

it is hard when their is a break up at anytime but harder when you are pregnant , when i was pregnant with my son i done the whole pregnancy alone i was not with his father as we were separated when i conceived him i found it hard but i managed i was 19 i realised i didnt need him as much as i thought i did i had to be strong , we did get back together though on the day he was born but lasted only 18 months my son is now 5 im with someone new and couldnt be happier try not too stress out about it you are carrying a beautiful baby xxx

Jetters · Dec 21st, 2009, 06:33 AM

Breaking up is hard to do, but if you know it's the right decision for you then well done on being so brave. xxx

babydeabreu · Dec 21st, 2009, 07:39 AM

wow hun you have to be Incredibly strong to walk away from him...i no it must be so hard to make that decision. the worst thing is to be with someone who makes u angry, upset and just quite frankly (not happy).

how far are you? its good you have your sister and mum to help you through this..so try not to feel alone.

you never no you leaving him might kick him up the arse and wake him up to him losing hes family from hes own fault.

i wish you all the best hun and hope it works out better for you.

xxx xx

lillysmum · Dec 21st, 2009, 07:43 AM

that sucks, surrounding yourself with family an friends will help you get through a hard time like this will be. Remember that you can do this, for yourself and your baby and we're all here to listen if you need us

karamel · Dec 21st, 2009, 13:16 PM

Thank you everyone for your kind words and support.
It is a really hard thing to be going through right now, but i know in my heart i made the right decision for me and my little bean.
I'd rather be alone and happy than with someone who makes me feel utterly horrible half the time.
It's better for me, and for my future child. I don't need someone like him in my life, especially not in my child's life, even more so after what he said to me last night.
I just have to stay strong, and everyone on here is definitely helping me

Thank you all again.

firsttimemumm · Dec 21st, 2009, 13:43 PM

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Originally Posted by karamel

Quote:

Originally Posted by RinnaRoo

Oh that blows babe. Its gonna be hard, but I know your strong and you can make it through.
Im sure he'll be a great father, regardless.

We are all here for ya's!

Yes a great father indeed -- such a great father that he told me tonight "the only reason I'd play with a knife would be to give you an abortion" -- during our break up this evening.
Yeah, a wonderful father.

You are well out of it!!! I know it sounds harsh but if he is that kind of a person he is not someone you need around you! You sound like a lovely person who will be a great Mummy! I'm glad that you have your mum and sister there to support you. Take care....

Dec 20th, 2009, 21:55 PM	#11
Katherine Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Hong Kong Posts: 829	Sorry to hear that, hun. Hope you will get the support you need from you family.

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Dec 21st, 2009, 05:04 AM	#14
beatnick Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Hampshire UK Posts: 1,766	Karamel you have been incredibly brave! Good for you thinking of you and your bean. You would not want to bring your child up with the example that being with the wrong person is the right thing to do. You will find someone perfect for you. This time will be hard, and now is the time to gather friends and family. Your closest people will be honoured to be by your side. Delegate, involve and lean on your family. They will love being involved- I guarantee. You have been very courageuos and you will make a great example to your future child.

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Dec 21st, 2009, 05:13 AM	#15
jenny25 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: essex Posts: 5,168	it is hard when their is a break up at anytime but harder when you are pregnant , when i was pregnant with my son i done the whole pregnancy alone i was not with his father as we were separated when i conceived him i found it hard but i managed i was 19 i realised i didnt need him as much as i thought i did i had to be strong , we did get back together though on the day he was born but lasted only 18 months my son is now 5 im with someone new and couldnt be happier try not too stress out about it you are carrying a beautiful baby xxx

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Dec 21st, 2009, 06:33 AM	#16
Jetters Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: London Posts: 5,033	Breaking up is hard to do, but if you know it's the right decision for you then well done on being so brave. xxx

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Dec 21st, 2009, 07:39 AM	#17
babydeabreu Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: west London Posts: 4,906	wow hun you have to be Incredibly strong to walk away from him...i no it must be so hard to make that decision. the worst thing is to be with someone who makes u angry, upset and just quite frankly (not happy). how far are you? its good you have your sister and mum to help you through this..so try not to feel alone. you never no you leaving him might kick him up the arse and wake him up to him losing hes family from hes own fault. i wish you all the best hun and hope it works out better for you. xxx xx

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lillysmum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Dundee Posts: 3,825	that sucks, surrounding yourself with family an friends will help you get through a hard time like this will be. Remember that you can do this, for yourself and your baby and we're all here to listen if you need us

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karamel Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 453	Thank you everyone for your kind words and support. It is a really hard thing to be going through right now, but i know in my heart i made the right decision for me and my little bean. I'd rather be alone and happy than with someone who makes me feel utterly horrible half the time. It's better for me, and for my future child. I don't need someone like him in my life, especially not in my child's life, even more so after what he said to me last night. I just have to stay strong, and everyone on here is definitely helping me Thank you all again.

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