I had my first scan today and decided I wanted to tell my colleagues at work. I knew they suspected I was but I found out really early and didn't want to tell anyone until I had seen the heart beat for myself. It didn't feel real until I saw it with my own eyes.
Their reaction was really weird. Most of them were lovely and said they suspected but were really happy for my. A couple of them made me feel as though they were put out that I had only just told them. One said she knew because of my bump! I am only 11 weeks and whatever she saw wasn't the baby!
Another said it would have been easier from her point of view if she had known because of all the appointments I went for. Management knew, it's none of her business.
I have run out of angry smilies now so I'm just going to say AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGH!!!!!!!!!!
I understand why you are upset, it really was (and still is) none of their business! You had every right to tell when you felt most comfortable doing it!!
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dont listen to 'em hun (easier said than done i know) but defo sound jealous - some people just love focusing on others' cos their own life is cack....
I am only 11 weeks and whatever she saw wasn't the baby!
I understand why you are upset, it really was (and still is) none of their business! You had every right to tell when you felt most comfortable doing it!!
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