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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  have we done something completely stupid???
I feel so bad cos it seems like i'm on here everyday with a new dilema!!
Last night was the first night me and OH had sex since the m/c, as everything has finally settled down. Anyway, we kinda got caught up in the moment, so thats why it happened, but it all happened so fast, i dont mean it was over fast lol, but before i had time to think we were having sex. Then after, i realised that as it happened so quickly, we had forgotten to use a condom. Now i feel so guilty!!. After what my OH said monday night about wanting to wait a few years before we have a baby, and if it has made me pregnant, i feel bad it being before the three months, and i dont want it to mean another m/c!!!
I know that we have been so completely stupid and i feel so SO guilty.
But also, theres a little bit of me thats excited. But garrrr i just feel so horribly bad!!! 
Sorry for going on YET AGAIN!! |
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:16 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  I believe that things happen for a reason so if its meant to be it will & it is out of your control so no point worrying about it xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:21 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | You moan to us anytime hunni, its what we are here for!
Dont be upset and guilty it was an accident, everyone gets carried away now and again. What has your OH said?
Hope your ok, chin up xxxx |
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:27 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | What has he said about last night??
Absolutely nothing!!
I said "shit we didnt use a condom" and he just said oh yeah.
He really didnt seem worried...
But monday he was saying he wanted to wait a few years before we try so we're in a better financial position. So i just dont get it!!
I'm just so confused!!.
I know men say they dont get women, but i think men are far more complicated!! grrr!!. |
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:31 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Quote:
Originally Posted by maddiwatts19 
I know men say they dont get women, but i think men are far more complicated!! grrr!!.
| Completely agree with you there!
Sounds like there is still some more talking for you two to do. |
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | aww hun jus remember it takes to tango im sure if he was mega worried he wud of stopped xxxxx |
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:33 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I agree with you there!! Seriously tho dont feel bad, like Elles siad things happen for a reason and hey if he isnt too bothered, you shouldnt be either.
With regards to being in a better finincial situation, i dont think there is ever a good time to have a baby finincially, if we had waited we would never have got pregnant.
I have my fingers crossed for you hunni, either way. your happiness is all that matters. xx |
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:42 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thank you girlies!!
I know your all right. I just paniced!!!
I love my OH with all my heart, but he just winds me up so much!!!
He doesnt like to talk about things, because he's not good and sharing his emotions!!
Oh i dont know.....
Guess we just have to wait.
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:44 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Men!
What will be will be Maddi. No point fretting about it now. See what happens and deal with it if you need to Poppet
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Mar 19th, 2008, 14:54 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Like Elles said i believe things happen 4 a reason!!
It'll all work itself out!! xx |
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