im not even getting involved on this one but i found this comment too amusing

I care! And I'm sorry if you are upset by anything that I have personally written! Never my intention and I expect no one else will have meant to hurt your feelings they are just putting forward their opinions on this discussion the same way you are! Please accept my apologies if I've hurt you XXXXXXXX

I will not be having any alcohol while I'm pregnant. It's not really about me anymore and I want to take good care of my baby to make sure they fully develop. In my opinion, it's selfish...but I am not here to judge. As long as you're not going out getting drunk every night, I don't see how one glass of wine every couple weeks will hurt.

not trying to scare people its their choice just want to know why ?

i really cant be bothered if you want to do it knock yourself out

i am getting too stressed about it all now and its not worth it

I am so sorry that you lost your baby, I couldn't even begin to know what that would have been like. I had a MC @ 11wks but that isn't the same thing.

However to make that comment that because people still smoke that why should they get to keep their baby is so heartless and cruel. NOBODY deserves to go through what you have gone through NOBODY.

I no longer smoke, I have given up and am proud of that. However when I was young and pregnant I DID smoke, I tried to quit but found it too hard, I cut down but didn't quit. So based on your comment, your baby should be here and my son should be dead.

I am thankful and very lucky my son is healthy, I love him and my other boys with every being inside of me, it is because of my children and ttc again that I was able to quit my smoking, they are my success, its because I look at them with such love and know that I don't want them as they get older to have care for me while I am dying of cancer.

I agree women should try to stop smoking and give up the drink ( I have never drunk) but MY GOSH nodody deserves a stillborn or a MC or birth defects NOBODY.

I was 22 when pregnant with my 1st and am now 35 pregnant with my 4th, people learn alot in that amount of time.

Wishing you a healthy pregnancy

In that case i think its time to call this thread a day, there wasnt really a debate aspect to it was there judging from your OP?

The guidelines on alcohol are there for everyone too see, how they use those guidelines is up to them and them alone, if you want to drink then fine, if you dont then fine, just as long as you keep those guidelines in mind

Im now locking this one ladies

This is getting pathetic now. We're all entitled to do what we want to do when pregnant, the NHS and health care professionals give advice, if you choose to follow it, great, if not, its your problem and noone elses!

if i knew you i would personally go and buy you one now...infact i was in Canada recently and you have the double Big Mac...you would be 'lovin it'

Dozy bint i am ... would help if i actually locked the thread wouldnt it