1st Scan today 12wks 3 days - Can't Stop Crying

SmileyShazza · Nov 24th, 2009, 08:50 AM

We went for our first scan today and the sonographer couldn't get a decent scan using the picture so she said she wanted to do an internal one.

After a bit of looking around she told us that she could see signs that our baby died at around 6 weeks

She got someone to come and give a second opinion and they agreed.

We were then trapsed halfway accross the hospital through the outpatients department with me crying my eyes out to speak to a senior nurse who explained what happens now - am going to have an operation over the next couple of weeks.

Am absolutely devastated. I had managed to convince myself that because I'd been suffering with morning sickness over the past few weeks that it meant our bean was really strong and now all I keep thinking is how I've been feeling miserable and ill for absolutely no reason

I realise now just how much we wanted this baby - I keep bursting into tears whenever I think about it

Beadette · Nov 24th, 2009, 08:52 AM

Oh darling I'm so so sorry about your loss! My thoughts are with you and your Oh x x x x

cupcake · Nov 24th, 2009, 08:53 AM

so sorry x

natasja32 · Nov 24th, 2009, 08:56 AM

Oh sweetheart i am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

ProudMum · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:00 AM

so sorry to hear of your loss...

mummy2010 · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:12 AM

im so sorry for your loss xx

ladypotter · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:20 AM

I am so sorry this has happened to you. I have been in your shoes too many times and the pain never gets any easier. All I can say is I pray for a speedy recovery and healing process and that we see you back in the first tri soon!!!

lauren10 · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:38 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Adela Quested · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:41 AM

Oh sweetie I wish I could just give you a big big hug

I am so sorry to hear about this.

BeanieBaby · Nov 24th, 2009, 09:46 AM

I am so so sorry for your loss. I know just how you feel as have come out from 2 early scans now in floods of tears, yet they're still dragging me back this thurs for a 3rd before they will finally confirm everything's over, even though we know there's no hope for our little bean. I wish you a speedy and complication free recovery. xxx

Nov 24th, 2009, 08:50 AM	#1
SmileyShazza On a break (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Buckinghamshire Posts: 5,363	1st Scan today 12wks 3 days - Can't Stop Crying We went for our first scan today and the sonographer couldn't get a decent scan using the picture so she said she wanted to do an internal one. After a bit of looking around she told us that she could see signs that our baby died at around 6 weeks She got someone to come and give a second opinion and they agreed. We were then trapsed halfway accross the hospital through the outpatients department with me crying my eyes out to speak to a senior nurse who explained what happens now - am going to have an operation over the next couple of weeks. Am absolutely devastated. I had managed to convince myself that because I'd been suffering with morning sickness over the past few weeks that it meant our bean was really strong and now all I keep thinking is how I've been feeling miserable and ill for absolutely no reason I realise now just how much we wanted this baby - I keep bursting into tears whenever I think about it

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Nov 24th, 2009, 08:52 AM	#2
Beadette Other BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Notts, UK Posts: 11,297	Oh darling I'm so so sorry about your loss! My thoughts are with you and your Oh x x x x

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mummy2010 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: birmingham Posts: 1,045	im so sorry for your loss xx

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ladypotter Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 1,865	I am so sorry this has happened to you. I have been in your shoes too many times and the pain never gets any easier. All I can say is I pray for a speedy recovery and healing process and that we see you back in the first tri soon!!!

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lauren10 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: NB Canada Posts: 2,450	I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Adela Quested Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Amsterdam, Netherlands Posts: 1,155	Oh sweetie I wish I could just give you a big big hug I am so sorry to hear about this.

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Nov 24th, 2009, 09:46 AM	#10
BeanieBaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Surrey, UK Posts: 3,778	I am so so sorry for your loss. I know just how you feel as have come out from 2 early scans now in floods of tears, yet they're still dragging me back this thurs for a 3rd before they will finally confirm everything's over, even though we know there's no hope for our little bean. I wish you a speedy and complication free recovery. xxx

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