Anyone eles really miserable?

sdgerrard · Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:36 AM

Dont get me wrong i am very happy and greatful to be pregnant but at the minute i am seriously suffering, i feel very depressed about everything, im sick of feeling sick and tired, i cant be bothered to do anything i am normally very house proud but that had just gone down the pan and i struggle to do the basics i just dont want to get up, i snap at people, constantly crying and my temper is terrible i am soo fed up, my OH is not happy with me being like this atall, i wasnt like this with my son whatsoever and i have to admit it really is putting me off having anymore! im only 9 week aswell anyone eles feel similar?

lauren10 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:03 AM

I'm sorry to hear this. Are you getting enough sleep?

maisiemoo · Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:07 AM

exactly the same

moving makes me feel ill. I wake in the middle of the night feeling sick. Can't keep anything down and can't go anywhere, as i'm just sick all the time. I'm feeling bad because my OH is doing everything. I'm pleased the pregnancy is ok and happy to be pregnant, but i've never felt so awful!

sdgerrard · Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:30 AM

thanks 4 replying ladies i feel very guilty on the baby and just hope this passes soon ive only just got dressed and its half 1

sorry ur feelin rubbish too maisiemoo lucky u have ur partner to help, if my OH helped more i suppose it would be easier but thats just not him! i think im getting plenty of sleep around 10 hours a night! im still exhausted, but ill keep plodding on x

Zen_Jenn · Nov 22nd, 2009, 09:04 AM

From weeks 5-10 I had no energy, yawned all day, and as soon as I got home from work I was asleep on the couch. But, the tiredness has mostly gone away now. I still feell nauseous all the time, but not the overwhelming waves I had before.

I do need 9-10 hours of sleep a night now (up from 8 hours pre-pregnancy). i think that really helps.

lauren10 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 09:17 AM

I usually want to kick people for saying this, but they say that exercise might make you feel better. Might be worth a try!

Feel better

Rebecca_B · Nov 22nd, 2009, 15:17 PM

This exactly how i feel too............

I'm grouchy, sad, angry, tearful, sensitive, exhausted, nauseaus, fed-up, unreasonable, and all the time wishing this part over......

I find i can't get excited about the pregnancy until this bit is over.... hopefully by wk 14 latest.

bfphopeful · Nov 22nd, 2009, 15:34 PM

I've just started feeling that way today. I really hope this doesn't get any worse than this coz I fee really crappy! The thought of food is so repulsive and I'm in such a foul mood.

mrsthomas623 · Nov 22nd, 2009, 16:32 PM

You sounds like me! I have found out... I do not like being pregnant (at least in the 1st trimester). It does not affect me on being totally excited for our little one to join us.... I just wish it was NOW! haha!

I am ready to be feeling better and I am dying to feel my baby's kicks!

Adela Quested · Nov 22nd, 2009, 17:07 PM

I have been fine (about 5 weeks) but my SIL is about 11 weeks now and has been seriously depressed since the pregnancy began, so I know exactly what you mean. It's really awful for her. She is thrilled to be pregnant, but the sickness, tiredness and depression make life pretty miserable for her right now. Luckily she has our in-laws to take care of her little one so she and her OH can get lots of extra sleep and spend some time together, as it is extra rough trying to care for another kiddo when you feel terrible.

I guess the good news is that your first tri will be over soon, but I wonder if you could talk to your doctor and get him or her on side to explain to your OH that this can happen during pregnancy and you need lots of understanding and extra support? Basically your body and hormones are in turmoil, so don't feel guilty for feeling so awful.

Nov 22nd, 2009, 06:36 AM	#1
sdgerrard Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 292	Anyone eles really miserable? Dont get me wrong i am very happy and greatful to be pregnant but at the minute i am seriously suffering, i feel very depressed about everything, im sick of feeling sick and tired, i cant be bothered to do anything i am normally very house proud but that had just gone down the pan and i struggle to do the basics i just dont want to get up, i snap at people, constantly crying and my temper is terrible i am soo fed up, my OH is not happy with me being like this atall, i wasnt like this with my son whatsoever and i have to admit it really is putting me off having anymore! im only 9 week aswell anyone eles feel similar?

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:03 AM	#2
lauren10 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: NB Canada Posts: 2,449	I'm sorry to hear this. Are you getting enough sleep?

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:07 AM	#3
maisiemoo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Dorset Posts: 709	exactly the same moving makes me feel ill. I wake in the middle of the night feeling sick. Can't keep anything down and can't go anywhere, as i'm just sick all the time. I'm feeling bad because my OH is doing everything. I'm pleased the pregnancy is ok and happy to be pregnant, but i've never felt so awful!

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 08:30 AM	#4
sdgerrard Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 292	thanks 4 replying ladies i feel very guilty on the baby and just hope this passes soon ive only just got dressed and its half 1 sorry ur feelin rubbish too maisiemoo lucky u have ur partner to help, if my OH helped more i suppose it would be easier but thats just not him! i think im getting plenty of sleep around 10 hours a night! im still exhausted, but ill keep plodding on x

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 09:04 AM	#5
Zen_Jenn Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: New Zealand Posts: 960	From weeks 5-10 I had no energy, yawned all day, and as soon as I got home from work I was asleep on the couch. But, the tiredness has mostly gone away now. I still feell nauseous all the time, but not the overwhelming waves I had before. I do need 9-10 hours of sleep a night now (up from 8 hours pre-pregnancy). i think that really helps.

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 09:17 AM	#6
lauren10 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: NB Canada Posts: 2,449	I usually want to kick people for saying this, but they say that exercise might make you feel better. Might be worth a try! Feel better

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 15:17 PM	#7
Rebecca_B Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Coventry Posts: 671	This exactly how i feel too............ I'm grouchy, sad, angry, tearful, sensitive, exhausted, nauseaus, fed-up, unreasonable, and all the time wishing this part over...... I find i can't get excited about the pregnancy until this bit is over.... hopefully by wk 14 latest.

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 15:34 PM	#8
bfphopeful Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK Posts: 243	I've just started feeling that way today. I really hope this doesn't get any worse than this coz I fee really crappy! The thought of food is so repulsive and I'm in such a foul mood.

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 16:32 PM	#9
mrsthomas623 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ohio, US Posts: 3,557	You sounds like me! I have found out... I do not like being pregnant (at least in the 1st trimester). It does not affect me on being totally excited for our little one to join us.... I just wish it was NOW! haha! I am ready to be feeling better and I am dying to feel my baby's kicks!

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Nov 22nd, 2009, 17:07 PM	#10
Adela Quested Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Amsterdam, Netherlands Posts: 1,155	I have been fine (about 5 weeks) but my SIL is about 11 weeks now and has been seriously depressed since the pregnancy began, so I know exactly what you mean. It's really awful for her. She is thrilled to be pregnant, but the sickness, tiredness and depression make life pretty miserable for her right now. Luckily she has our in-laws to take care of her little one so she and her OH can get lots of extra sleep and spend some time together, as it is extra rough trying to care for another kiddo when you feel terrible. I guess the good news is that your first tri will be over soon, but I wonder if you could talk to your doctor and get him or her on side to explain to your OH that this can happen during pregnancy and you need lots of understanding and extra support? Basically your body and hormones are in turmoil, so don't feel guilty for feeling so awful.

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