im having a really bad week ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i have just found out he as recently just started seeing is wife again (their divorce didnt come through yet), we have now finished and he is back with her proparly. i am really heartbroken as everything was going great, it was even his idea to have a baby!! we had been living together and my kids thought the world of him. to make matters worse he as now turned into a totally different person and my head is really messed up. im trying to keep my chin up but its so hard when he is behaving like this and im carrying his baby! how can men do this??? he is now denying im pregnant- which he clearly knows i am as ive had scans!!! i just cant believe it
oh dude, this must be really tough on you. that's a really crappy thing for someone to do to you. look after yourself and your little bump because you two are the most important people in this situation.
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The following user says 'Thanks' to ewoklets for this post:
wow,he is a pig...
He really treated you terribly.You are truly having a bad week!
I'm sorry.
I know that this is now a difficult situation,but you have to think of your baby.And your kids.
Does his wife know about you and the baby?Cause something is not right with him...he can't just walk out on his baby and pretend this never happened...
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The following user says 'Thanks' to nikky0907 for this post:
oh my God what an absolute w----r!!!!! so sorry to hear you are goin throught this hun. But by the sounds of it you and your baby will be better of without him, it's totally his loss.
I know it's hard but try and keep your chin up. Have you got friends and family around you that you can talk to for support???
xxx
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The following user says 'Thanks' to hollie86 for this post:
I'm really sorry. Men.... and women can get really nasty after a break up, especially if there is someone else involved because they're trying to prove something to the new person. I know it's hard but try not to get to his level. Be the adult and act like you couldn't care less what he says or does. Nothing will wind him up more!! Just focus on your baby and your future. He sounds like a real idiot!!
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The following user says 'Thanks' to anita665 for this post:
I think you've all be very mild ...... what a f****n b*****d, I dont' care, that's absolutely crap. I am so sorry, but I repeat what the others say think of No. 1, you and baby. Stuff him, it's hard and I know it hurts, but you are the better person, you can do this. We'll be supporting you all the way on this forum.
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ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i have just found out he as recently just started seeing is wife again (their divorce didnt come through yet), we have now finished and he is back with her proparly. i am really heartbroken as everything was going great, it was even his idea to have a baby!! we had been living together and my kids thought the world of him. to make matters worse he as now turned into a totally different person and my head is really messed up. im trying to keep my chin up but its so hard when he is behaving like this and im carrying his baby! how can men do this??? he is now denying im pregnant- which he clearly knows i am as ive had scans!!! i just cant believe it
I'm really sorry. Men.... and women can get really nasty after a break up, especially if there is someone else involved because they're trying to prove something to the new person. I know it's hard but try not to get to his level. Be the adult and act like you couldn't care less what he says or does. Nothing will wind him up more!! Just focus on your baby and your future. He sounds like a real idiot!! 
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