He sounds like a man in denial, both that you're pregnant and denial that he wanted to leave his wife in the first place. Seriously dellusional and probably lacking some serious self comunication skill.
Like everyone else said, you now have to look out for yourself and your baby, keep strong and be glad you found out what he was like now.
thats horrible try keep your chin up you deserve a whole lot better than that dog gave you. And i hate that men think they can just forget their children and thats okay. I was with my ex for 7 years (we had 2 boys)when i found out that he'd been cheating for at least 2years and not only was that bad enough but it was with MEN. He hasnt seen the kids pretty much since and couldn't care less i now have the most amazing man and another beautiful little boy so you 2 will find someone that will treat you like a princess. CONGRATS on your little girl.
WOW. That is one of the single most fucked up (excuse the language) things I've heard a man do. I'm so sorry. I wouldn't even begin to know what I'd do in that situation. That's just awful
He sounds like a man in denial, both that you're pregnant and denial that he wanted to leave his wife in the first place. Seriously dellusional and probably lacking some serious self comunication skill.
Like everyone else said, you now have to look out for yourself and your baby, keep strong and be glad you found out what he was like now.
hed already left his wife 3 years ago, their divorce just wasnt finalised yet. i know hes a loser and a total coward and im better off without him but its still hard, i just cant believe he would act like this. im still in shock!!
Have you ever thought that his 'ex' is pulling on some of his heartstrings, or usuing some emotional blackmail as it seems odd that he would suddenly change.
Is a horrid situation and hopefully he will come to his senses but he has a responsibiliy to ALL his kids.
I expect his wife does know and is probably being a cow! doesnt help you much i know, but you will be fine and its his own loss.
Have you ever thought that his 'ex' is pulling on some of his heartstrings, or usuing some emotional blackmail as it seems odd that he would suddenly change.
Is a horrid situation and hopefully he will come to his senses but he has a responsibiliy to ALL his kids.
I expect his wife does know and is probably being a cow! doesnt help you much i know, but you will be fine and its his own loss.
yeah i think you might be right about the ex, she was always very controlling and was always using his kids to get to him, just a shame the spineless toad hasnt got a backbone to stand up for himself!! but at the end of the day noone would be able to make me deny my own child
I agree with Abigail you need to find out what you can do he has responsibilities to the child and he needs to face up to that you need to find out the laws (i'm doing family law my OH has no way of getting away from it ha ha ha ha) It might not feel like the right time to do it but you've got to be practical not just for this baby but your other children who will also lose out because of it. Hope you come out the other side soon
It might not feel like the right time to do it but you've got to be practical not just for this baby but your other children who will also lose out because of it. 
Hope you come out the other side soon 
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