Pregnancy - First Trimester

xclairex · Mar 1st, 2008, 12:27 PM

im sorry wat u have had to go thro try get rid of him and concentrate on whats important hun x

leeanne · Mar 1st, 2008, 14:09 PM

I am so sorry! Some men can be such jerks! You don't need someone like that and you deserve far better! Concentrate on you and your lovely baby. I know it will be tough and it's going to be hard, but be strong and you will realize in time you are much better off without him.

Ann-Marie · Mar 1st, 2008, 15:04 PM

What a complete and utter cowardly waste of space !!!!!!!!!!! You deserve a hell of a lot more, and if his wife can take him back after everything, plus you carrying his child, they are a perfect match.

Keep your head held high, and show him that you are gonna have a damn good time without him, and don't need a tosspot like him around !!!!!!!

baby.girl · Mar 4th, 2008, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by tinkerbelll

im having a really bad week

ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i have just found out he as recently just started seeing is wife again (their divorce didnt come through yet), we have now finished and he is back with her proparly. i am really heartbroken as everything was going great, it was even his idea to have a baby!! we had been living together and my kids thought the world of him. to make matters worse he as now turned into a totally different person and my head is really messed up. im trying to keep my chin up but its so hard when he is behaving like this and im carrying his baby! how can men do this??? he is now denying im pregnant- which he clearly knows i am as ive had scans!!! i just cant believe it

omg, that is horrible...i'm pretty speechless...that's CRAZY of him!!! All i can say, is I'm so sorry, and i know it sounds corny but we are all here for you for whatever we can do

...I know this is a stupid thing to say because the situation is such a negative one, but really try to keep your head up, for you and the baby's health. I'm so sorry again

codiontour · Mar 4th, 2008, 12:05 PM

what a loser he is! i would (as much as you can) act as if you could care less, do you have people to keep your mind off him to talk to mom, dad, friends? i would try to stay very busy and focus on anything else.

tinkerbelll · Mar 28th, 2008, 17:00 PM

thanks everyone for all your kind words, i am feeling alot better about everythings now and i know me and baby will be fine. i havent heard anything off mr spineless, although he did get a friend to tell me he doesnt want anything to do with the baby when its born as he as his own children!!!! that was quite upsetting but i am resisting the urge to try and contact him which as been hard this week as i found out the sex of the baby and did feel sad he didnt know

Belle · Mar 28th, 2008, 17:09 PM

Glad ur feeling a bit better, and you and baby are doing both well!! What ru having???
He'll come to his senses when its too late, just make sure u take care of u both!! x

cheryl · Mar 28th, 2008, 17:15 PM

Oh hun I am glad you are feeling better, Just try and forget about him. If he has done that he is not worth it. You and your baby and your children are all that matters. If you need to talk I am here hun, Just pm me.
Luv Cheryl xxx

nikky0907 · Mar 28th, 2008, 17:16 PM

He has his own children?And this one isn't his own?Idiot...

Never mind him.What are you having?

cheryl · Mar 28th, 2008, 17:17 PM

Yeah what you having hun, A Boy or a Girl?
Luv Cheryl xxx

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