Is anybody in a situation similar to myself?
My partner doesn't want me to get the vaccination but I am leaning towards getting it, but of course worried about any long term damage to the baby.
My partner says no because it hasn't been tested in pregnancy etc. and he also says he couldnt cope with a child that was born with problems - he isnt great with helping out with our healthy son now - so cant imagine what he would be like with an unhealthy one!
This is going to sound awful lol but he has also indirectly said that he and our son would have to cope if I were to die from swine flu (charming!) but our relationship would break down if we had a baby that had major developmental problems and he doesn't want to increase this risk.
It scares me so much to think about what would happen to my son (who is very much a Mummies boy) if I were to die, and I would do anything to try to protect him - so if that means getting a jab that would increase my chances of miscarriage then unfortunatly I would have to do it. My son who is here now, comes first untill this baby is born.
Anyway - what I would like to know is:
how do we research this? What information do we read and believe?
what are the theoretical side effects to the baby?
if you had it done in the first trimester would the 20 week scan pick up any problems from the vaccination?
What are the reasons for having it done after the first trimester? Is it because miscarriage is less, or is it because the major organs are formed so there is less chance of these being effected?
This whole mercury thing - do I need to ask the doctor/nurse about this - do any of the vaccinations in the UK contain the mercury that stays in the body and causes problems?
If anyone can point me in the direction of info for the above answers Id be grateful
