is there a way to delete this? I have something more elaborate to talk about about this and i dont wantto keep this thread

ps Im married and live on my own with two kids and ahubby

Maybe wait untill you're further on?

maybe.. idk.

whenever you're ready, just let him know...who knows maybe he will be thrilled, if not, just keep your chin up, he'll probably come around eventually. As long as you and your DH are happy and thrilled, that's what your LO needs

congratulations.

hope so. But he always gets mad at me for getting pregnant, it's going to be tough considering this wasn't a planned pregnancy and we used spermicide which obviously was defective.... I do wanna be pregnant and everything just not this early> we havent really um.. gotten some of our finances straightened out yet but we are in the process of it, we missed a cheque for january for some wierd reason and we're trying to get that all figured out I hope it gets figured out soon I'm very worried My father's the type who worries alot too so he'll panic when I sees im pregnant

Why does he get cross? Its your life. You are married and bringing up a child already. I would wait until 3months or so to tell him your news. Good luck

Two children. Im going to wait a bit, I dont want to have another miscarriage either.

I'm so sorry he's like that hun. I'm in a simular position. I have 2 kids and am married but haven't told my parents yet about me being pregnant as I'm worried about their reaction. I would try and leave it till you're further on. No matter how much we worry they will understand eventually because they have to. I bet you he'll love his new little grandchild before you know it

thats true