If we all waited until we thought we were financially secure i doubt we would ever have a baby! Theres always something that crops up that needs paying or buying! I doubt there would ever be a 'perfect' time.

I think we all have these thoughts at one point or another. We weren't planning on this baby, and my OH definitely feels the timing is way off. But at the same time, we are getting through it because ultimately, we want the baby. As far as finances, everyone's comments are right. You really don't need all that crap that they advertise, and it is amazing how giving people can be with their used items. My best friend has been saving a crib for me (for 3 years!), and I have other friends that will also be giving me stuff. Personally, I don't want too much stuff as the baby outgrows it so quickly anyways.

Thanks for all your comments , it means so much to know im not alone in thinking like this. I guess im just tired and emotional and things always seem worst at times like that. Ive had a good day (no morning sickness - woo hoo) and im gonna go home and have a big cuddle with OH, long hot batha nd early night.
Thanks again girls - your all stars xxxxx