2nd MC in 3 months should i just give up now?

beachlover1 · Oct 17th, 2009, 04:02 AM

i am ttc baby number 1. Im 34 yrs old, DH IS 29. I have just had my 2nd mc in 3 months...one mmc at 7 weeks ended in a d and c. This one is basically a chemical, bleeding now at 4+5 weeks. Shall i just give up now? Is there anyone out there that has had this and has a good news story? What did u do differently the next time around? Takes extra supplements etc? anything??Right now i feel a total failure. Im so sad. X

Beautywithin · Oct 17th, 2009, 04:10 AM

Im sorry i cant exactly relate, i have had one MC and that was bad enough!! i would say give it a bit of time befor you try again....

Never give up on something you really want! as long as you have hope, then it will happen

xx

dt1234565 · Oct 17th, 2009, 04:12 AM

Hi beachlover, I think a lot of people on this site have experienced this.

With the chemical a lot of people dont even realise and think it is just a period as they may not of even tested for pregnancy.

I am sorry you are going through this but do not give up.

Do however see you GP and ask for some advice, he/she may say its quite normal but if you ask them for advice and tell them you need some reassurance i am sure they can help you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Lara310809 · Oct 17th, 2009, 04:22 AM

I've never miscarried, but I've heard of women having more miscarriages than you have, and they go on to have a number of healthy babies. You need to do what is right for you, and nobody can decide that for you, but it can definitely still happen for you. Sorry for your recent losses.

angel1977 · Oct 17th, 2009, 06:53 AM

im sorry if this upsets anyone.

i had 2 MMC then i fell with our son everything was fine we had an early scan then all the other scans to keep check on him and we had a totally normal pregnancy (this is where it gets sad) but due to hospital mistakes our son was born sleeping at 41+3.

im now 8+1 pg again, what im trying to say is you can go on to have a happy ending its f**king hard on you emotionally but it does happen.

please dont make any decisions yet take some time to heal first.

sorry again if iv upset anyone.

xxx

xbabybumpx · Oct 17th, 2009, 13:03 PM

hey. please dont give up! ive also had 2 miscarriages and im now 13 weeks! i had my 12 week scan the other day and everything looks as it should. he/she was a lazy bugger though and hardly moved lol. so please please dont give up xox

Amos2009 · Oct 17th, 2009, 14:20 PM

Beach- please do not give up! I know several women who have had numerous MC then went on and had a healthy baby. If this is something you really want, (which I know it is) maybe take a break and then start trying again. I would defnitely talk to your doctor to see if there is anything they can do for you. (testing, medications, etc...) There are actually a couple of wonderful ladies that I know on here who can tell you their stories- they went through terrible times but are now having healthy pregnancies. So sorry for your recent loss....I am here if you need to chat

BizyBee · Oct 17th, 2009, 14:56 PM

So sorry hun.

Tink.x · Oct 17th, 2009, 14:58 PM

I know i've had a chemical, and that was horrid. But babes it will happen eventually. Dont give up!! I really wish you the best of luck honey and all the baby dust in the world!! xoxox

Lamburai1703 · Oct 17th, 2009, 15:04 PM

Oh beachlover I am so sorry to hear your news. Sadly, I have no pearls of wisdom, but just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and your other half.

Oct 17th, 2009, 04:02 AM	#1
beachlover1 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,463	2nd MC in 3 months should i just give up now? i am ttc baby number 1. Im 34 yrs old, DH IS 29. I have just had my 2nd mc in 3 months...one mmc at 7 weeks ended in a d and c. This one is basically a chemical, bleeding now at 4+5 weeks. Shall i just give up now? Is there anyone out there that has had this and has a good news story? What did u do differently the next time around? Takes extra supplements etc? anything??Right now i feel a total failure. Im so sad. X

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Oct 17th, 2009, 04:10 AM	#2
Beautywithin Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Kent Posts: 6,014	Im sorry i cant exactly relate, i have had one MC and that was bad enough!! i would say give it a bit of time befor you try again.... Never give up on something you really want! as long as you have hope, then it will happen xx

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Oct 17th, 2009, 04:12 AM	#3
dt1234565 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Essex UK Posts: 4,119	Hi beachlover, I think a lot of people on this site have experienced this. With the chemical a lot of people dont even realise and think it is just a period as they may not of even tested for pregnancy. I am sorry you are going through this but do not give up. Do however see you GP and ask for some advice, he/she may say its quite normal but if you ask them for advice and tell them you need some reassurance i am sure they can help you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Oct 17th, 2009, 04:22 AM	#4
Lara310809 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Gibraltar (originally UK) Posts: 6,606	I've never miscarried, but I've heard of women having more miscarriages than you have, and they go on to have a number of healthy babies. You need to do what is right for you, and nobody can decide that for you, but it can definitely still happen for you. Sorry for your recent losses.

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Oct 17th, 2009, 06:53 AM	#5
angel1977 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 14	im sorry if this upsets anyone. i had 2 MMC then i fell with our son everything was fine we had an early scan then all the other scans to keep check on him and we had a totally normal pregnancy (this is where it gets sad) but due to hospital mistakes our son was born sleeping at 41+3. im now 8+1 pg again, what im trying to say is you can go on to have a happy ending its f**king hard on you emotionally but it does happen. please dont make any decisions yet take some time to heal first. sorry again if iv upset anyone. xxx

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Oct 17th, 2009, 13:03 PM	#6
xbabybumpx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: newcastle Posts: 1,591	hey. please dont give up! ive also had 2 miscarriages and im now 13 weeks! i had my 12 week scan the other day and everything looks as it should. he/she was a lazy bugger though and hardly moved lol. so please please dont give up xox

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Oct 17th, 2009, 14:20 PM	#7
Amos2009 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Alabama US Posts: 3,417	Beach- please do not give up! I know several women who have had numerous MC then went on and had a healthy baby. If this is something you really want, (which I know it is) maybe take a break and then start trying again. I would defnitely talk to your doctor to see if there is anything they can do for you. (testing, medications, etc...) There are actually a couple of wonderful ladies that I know on here who can tell you their stories- they went through terrible times but are now having healthy pregnancies. So sorry for your recent loss....I am here if you need to chat

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Oct 17th, 2009, 14:56 PM	#8
BizyBee Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New York, USA Posts: 7,665	So sorry hun.

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Oct 17th, 2009, 14:58 PM	#9
Tink.x Mum (Mom) Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Derby, United Kingdom Posts: 491	I know i've had a chemical, and that was horrid. But babes it will happen eventually. Dont give up!! I really wish you the best of luck honey and all the baby dust in the world!! xoxox

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Oct 17th, 2009, 15:04 PM	#10
Lamburai1703 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 3,851	Oh beachlover I am so sorry to hear your news. Sadly, I have no pearls of wisdom, but just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and your other half.

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