2nd MC in 3 months should i just give up now?

beachlover1 · Oct 17th, 2009, 03:15 AM

i am ttc baby number 1. Im 34 yrs old, DH IS 29. I have just had my 2nd mc in 3 months...one mmc at 7 weeks ended in a d and c. This one is basically a chemical, bleeding now at 4+5 weeks. Shall i just give up now? Is there anyone out there that has had this and has a good news story? What did u do differently the next time around? Takes extra supplements etc? anything??Right now i feel a total failure. Im so sad. X

RaeEW89 · Oct 17th, 2009, 03:21 AM

I had a m/c at 18, one at 19, lost a twin(vanishing twin syndrome) with my last pregnancy, then lost my little boy after a fall. Im pregnant again, you cant give up. It will happen, Im sure. I know that it is hard right now, but dont worry it will get better.

modo · Oct 17th, 2009, 03:22 AM

I am so sorry this has happened

I am sure someone will come by and offer their experience.

ellie27 · Oct 17th, 2009, 03:28 AM

Sorry to hear the sad news Beachlover.

Please do not give up. I know this will probably come across badly but I will say it - I think its amazing that you have got pregnant twice within 3 months!! On average a woman takes around 6 months to conceive - so I would say things are looking really, really good for you.

Remember every pregnancy is a completely different and new pregnancy and what has happened before makes no difference at all.

Maybe give yourself an extra month off this time - have 2 proper periods in between? Just to give your body and mind a bit of time. However, this is not essential and you should try if you feel up to it!

Unfortunately, theres nothing we can do to prevent miscarriage. I had one in January at 10wks, had 2 cycles off then tried again and got lucky. I am 32.

You will be pregnant again in no time and I am sure there will be a happy ending! Take care

MrsJD · Oct 17th, 2009, 03:50 AM

Never give up, I've had 5 MC since July 2008 and I've now got to the route of my problem, uterine natural killer cells. I have a 9w 5d little fighter on board.

Never give up on your dreams honey, I'm 39 next week and hubby is 29.

XXX

Oct 17th, 2009, 03:15 AM	#1
beachlover1 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,463	2nd MC in 3 months should i just give up now? i am ttc baby number 1. Im 34 yrs old, DH IS 29. I have just had my 2nd mc in 3 months...one mmc at 7 weeks ended in a d and c. This one is basically a chemical, bleeding now at 4+5 weeks. Shall i just give up now? Is there anyone out there that has had this and has a good news story? What did u do differently the next time around? Takes extra supplements etc? anything??Right now i feel a total failure. Im so sad. X

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Oct 17th, 2009, 03:21 AM	#2
RaeEW89 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 1,500	I had a m/c at 18, one at 19, lost a twin(vanishing twin syndrome) with my last pregnancy, then lost my little boy after a fall. Im pregnant again, you cant give up. It will happen, Im sure. I know that it is hard right now, but dont worry it will get better.

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Oct 17th, 2009, 03:22 AM	#3
modo Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Greater London Posts: 3,259	I am so sorry this has happened I am sure someone will come by and offer their experience.

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Oct 17th, 2009, 03:28 AM	#4
ellie27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: uk Posts: 8,703	Sorry to hear the sad news Beachlover. Please do not give up. I know this will probably come across badly but I will say it - I think its amazing that you have got pregnant twice within 3 months!! On average a woman takes around 6 months to conceive - so I would say things are looking really, really good for you. Remember every pregnancy is a completely different and new pregnancy and what has happened before makes no difference at all. Maybe give yourself an extra month off this time - have 2 proper periods in between? Just to give your body and mind a bit of time. However, this is not essential and you should try if you feel up to it! Unfortunately, theres nothing we can do to prevent miscarriage. I had one in January at 10wks, had 2 cycles off then tried again and got lucky. I am 32. You will be pregnant again in no time and I am sure there will be a happy ending! Take care

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Oct 17th, 2009, 03:50 AM	#5
MrsJD Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 7,889	Never give up, I've had 5 MC since July 2008 and I've now got to the route of my problem, uterine natural killer cells. I have a 9w 5d little fighter on board. Never give up on your dreams honey, I'm 39 next week and hubby is 29. XXX
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