Anyone else pregnant after a miscarriage and terrified??

Lamburai1703 · Oct 13th, 2009, 15:03 PM

Hi All,

I am now about 4 weeks pregnant (I think?) following a miscarriage on the 5th September at 8 weeks. I've not had a cycle in between, and almost wish I didn't know I was pregnant again, as I am now f***ing terrified something will go wrong again.

I guess I'm hoping there will be some ladies out there who understand, and people who can tell me positive stories and send me sticky vibes!!

Anyway, best of luck to all, looking forward to hopefully meeting some of you!

Fliss

KA92 · Oct 13th, 2009, 15:07 PM

Hi there
First of all sorry for your miscarriage but congrats on this pregnancy!!!
I had a miscarriage in Oct 08 at 13+2wds

Im now 5 weeks gone and already heard my beans heartbeat try not to worry honey cos your bubba can feel that, i know its difficult but trey and relax and just enjoy this bit of the pregnancy(unless your like me with bad symptoms right now!)Massive Hug

Ill keep my fingers crossed for you im sure this one will stick for you

x

Lamburai1703 · Oct 13th, 2009, 15:15 PM

Thanks KA92. I know I need to relax but its just not in my nature! I may even try and ban myself from the internet for a few days!

Did you have an early scan? How did you get to hear your bean's heartbeat so early? I am soo jealous!

MrsJD · Oct 13th, 2009, 15:21 PM

Firstly sorry for your loss

It's so hard after a MC (I've had 5) but please try and remain positive and relax honey.

XXXXX

555 · Oct 13th, 2009, 15:26 PM

Sorry you've had a loss. I had a missed miscarriage in May of this year.I've been really worried too, but had my 12 week scan yesterday and all is well, baby is measuring 11 weeks and 6 days so far so good. I know it is impossible not to worry but, try to stay strong and think positive. Hope my story gives you some positive feeling towards your pregnancy x

cinnamum · Oct 13th, 2009, 15:49 PM

hey hun, ive had 2 mc this year and this seems to a sticky one. im still cautious but i have told everyone that we are pregnant because i thought it might bring us luck. as weird as that sounds it is working so far.
i feel awful so i know this one is a sticky or at least i hope so x x x x x

happymamma · Oct 13th, 2009, 16:44 PM

I had a mc early Aug, then 8 days later became pg again. I know how you feel, Ive been a nervous wreck, and I know that doesnt help matters. I had 3 mc's total, and this is my 8th pg. Ive had lots of scares this time, but Im starting to think everything is just fine, Im worrying out of fear from what happened before. We have to try to not think the worse! Just take it one day at a time,.. you just might get an early scan to ease your mind, since you had a mc. Now if I can only follow my own advise lol
xxx

ellie27 · Oct 13th, 2009, 16:46 PM

First of all, Congrats

You have to remember that this is a new and completely different pregnancy.

Just because you have had a miscarriage before does not have any affect on whether you will miscarry again.

I had a miscarriage in January at 10wks, but just told myself it was for the best as something must have been wrong- and stayed positive.

I am now 26+wks and all is good so far.

The time will fly by
Good luck - positive happy thinking.

tonyamanda · Oct 13th, 2009, 16:53 PM

sorry for the losses girls.. Im scared because i watched my sister have 6 in a row.. one was even born at about 20 weeks as an angel.. Im terrified even though it has not happened to me.. you all are so brave

Vicyi · Oct 13th, 2009, 17:03 PM

Hey Hun i miscarried at 5 weeks in June this year and have been told 'it is very common to have a miscarriage in the very early stages of pregnancy' and 'one in four women will miscarry at some point' neither of these i found particularly comforting but like Ellie27 said this pregnancy is a new fresh start and every pregnancy is different. Try not to worry too much hun. I fell pregnant straight after miscarrying (going by my scan date i conceived the day after i stopped bleeding) and i am now 15 week into a new, so far healthy pregnancy. Just take each day as it comes and i wish you a very happy and healthy 9 months! x

Oct 13th, 2009, 15:03 PM	#1
Lamburai1703 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 3,851	Anyone else pregnant after a miscarriage and terrified?? Hi All, I am now about 4 weeks pregnant (I think?) following a miscarriage on the 5th September at 8 weeks. I've not had a cycle in between, and almost wish I didn't know I was pregnant again, as I am now f***ing terrified something will go wrong again. I guess I'm hoping there will be some ladies out there who understand, and people who can tell me positive stories and send me sticky vibes!! Anyway, best of luck to all, looking forward to hopefully meeting some of you! Fliss

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Oct 13th, 2009, 15:07 PM	#2
KA92 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Dundee Posts: 3,412	Hi there First of all sorry for your miscarriage but congrats on this pregnancy!!! I had a miscarriage in Oct 08 at 13+2wds Im now 5 weeks gone and already heard my beans heartbeat try not to worry honey cos your bubba can feel that, i know its difficult but trey and relax and just enjoy this bit of the pregnancy(unless your like me with bad symptoms right now!)Massive Hug Ill keep my fingers crossed for you im sure this one will stick for you x

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Oct 13th, 2009, 15:15 PM	#3
Lamburai1703 Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 3,851	Thanks KA92. I know I need to relax but its just not in my nature! I may even try and ban myself from the internet for a few days! Did you have an early scan? How did you get to hear your bean's heartbeat so early? I am soo jealous!

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Oct 13th, 2009, 15:21 PM	#4
MrsJD Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 7,889	Firstly sorry for your loss It's so hard after a MC (I've had 5) but please try and remain positive and relax honey. XXXXX
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Oct 13th, 2009, 15:26 PM	#5
555 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: sunderland Posts: 261	Sorry you've had a loss. I had a missed miscarriage in May of this year.I've been really worried too, but had my 12 week scan yesterday and all is well, baby is measuring 11 weeks and 6 days so far so good. I know it is impossible not to worry but, try to stay strong and think positive. Hope my story gives you some positive feeling towards your pregnancy x

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Oct 13th, 2009, 15:49 PM	#6
cinnamum Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Poole, Dorset Posts: 3,359	hey hun, ive had 2 mc this year and this seems to a sticky one. im still cautious but i have told everyone that we are pregnant because i thought it might bring us luck. as weird as that sounds it is working so far. i feel awful so i know this one is a sticky or at least i hope so x x x x x

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Oct 13th, 2009, 16:44 PM	#7
happymamma Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 1,002	I had a mc early Aug, then 8 days later became pg again. I know how you feel, Ive been a nervous wreck, and I know that doesnt help matters. I had 3 mc's total, and this is my 8th pg. Ive had lots of scares this time, but Im starting to think everything is just fine, Im worrying out of fear from what happened before. We have to try to not think the worse! Just take it one day at a time,.. you just might get an early scan to ease your mind, since you had a mc. Now if I can only follow my own advise lol xxx

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Oct 13th, 2009, 16:46 PM	#8
ellie27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: uk Posts: 8,699	First of all, Congrats You have to remember that this is a new and completely different pregnancy. Just because you have had a miscarriage before does not have any affect on whether you will miscarry again. I had a miscarriage in January at 10wks, but just told myself it was for the best as something must have been wrong- and stayed positive. I am now 26+wks and all is good so far. The time will fly by Good luck - positive happy thinking.

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Oct 13th, 2009, 16:53 PM	#9
tonyamanda Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Australia Posts: 784	sorry for the losses girls.. Im scared because i watched my sister have 6 in a row.. one was even born at about 20 weeks as an angel.. Im terrified even though it has not happened to me.. you all are so brave

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Oct 13th, 2009, 17:03 PM	#10
Vicyi Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: Essex, England Posts: 2,755	Hey Hun i miscarried at 5 weeks in June this year and have been told 'it is very common to have a miscarriage in the very early stages of pregnancy' and 'one in four women will miscarry at some point' neither of these i found particularly comforting but like Ellie27 said this pregnancy is a new fresh start and every pregnancy is different. Try not to worry too much hun. I fell pregnant straight after miscarrying (going by my scan date i conceived the day after i stopped bleeding) and i am now 15 week into a new, so far healthy pregnancy. Just take each day as it comes and i wish you a very happy and healthy 9 months! x

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