cetara

i am pregnant with baby #4. i feel like i was pressured into getting pregnant by my husband. i hate feeling like i don't want to be pregnant. there are so many women out there who can't have children. i feel like such a bad preson and mother. i don't want this child to come and i not feel anything for him or her. i am only 10 weeks and 1 day and i hope those feeling of happiness come but i am not so sure. please help!!!!

Ellianna

Aw hun I'm really sorry you feel like that

Don't really have any advice to give you coz I don't have any experience in that but just wanted to say I'm sorry and I hope you feel better soon
xx

toriaaaaTRASH

I hope it's just your hormones and you'll love your LO like all the others!

horrorheart13

I don't think I can say anything for sure because this is my first but I've been pregnant once before this (miscarriage) and with both pregnancies I had the same fears up until about 13 weeks or so. Maybe it'll take you longer but hopefully the farther along you get, the more comfortable and excited you will be with having another baby. Especially after the awful 1st tri is over.

I hope you feel better

coccyx

I am on baby number 4 and do feel a little overwhelmed at the thought of caring for 4 under 10 years, and hubby works away 4 days a week. But know i have to get on with it and sure will be ok when he arrives in May. We have been blessed with a child, which we thought we would never have. Have you tried talking to your OH?

Tam

Hi hun,

I am so sorry you are feeling like this

Hopefully as the pregnancy progresses and you start to feel things happen and see scans, this will start you building a bond with baby. But if this doesn't happen babe, do not sit back and feel bad about how you feel, it is not your fault, but you have to talk to your MW or GP (without your OH initially) and get it off yuor chest and take hier advice.

Stay on this site hun, there is lots of support here if you need it!

I really hope this all works out for you! x

cetara

i have tryed to talk to my oh. he is no help. he is home alot but lies to play on the computer. and our oldest child is only 5. so the ages of my children are 5,3, and 2. i also feel like i am not going to have the time to give them all what they need. i just don't know what to do.

Sweetie

I was happy when I found out we were expecting but I definately went through a period where I was not sure what I wanted (it was really scary for me because all you hear about is the people that are so incredibly happy) I finally came to terms with everything, it just took me a bit of time.

Hope you can find peace with whats going on, Take care