Hi ktsl123
My and df started ttc in July o7 after coming off bcp and got a BFP in Dec 07. However I never charted or anything but i get the cm when i ov and ov pain so i knew roughly when i ov.
The reason i never charted was because i did not want to try to hard and get wrapped up in a world off ttc. I pretty much gave up ttc after Nov

got me and sure enough i got my BFP a month later.
My advice to you would be just relax and enjoy bd with your dh and try not to obsess over getting pg as you can stress your self out. If you already know that you ov and when just go with the flow and it will happen when the time is right.
I would say charting is best for ppl who are not sure if and when they ov, but each to there own i guess.
Take care and good luck