Midwife told me over the phone I am miscarrying? Help! UPDATED - Page 4

lamplighter · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:33 PM

Thank you all for your positive energy. Updated first post!

Bingles · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:38 PM

That is just brilliant fantastic Im over the moon for you.

That other MW should be ashamed of herself I cried meself a little when you said you heared the heartbeat

Jessa · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:38 PM

Wonderful news! Yay!

shocker · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:46 PM

I cant believe how callous that midwife was!! Worrying you like that you should make a formal complaint that is very unnecesary stress for her to put you under! Im so glad to hear everythings ok and hope the rest of your pregnancy is stress free happy and healthy!

urchin · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:48 PM

that's a fab update lamplighter

So pleased for you that all is well.
If it were me, I certainly wouldn't be seeing midwife #1 again, that woman put you through horrendous torment - she should be ashamed of herself

lamplighter · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:55 PM

I'm in a program with 8 midwives. You can try to see all of them, or just a few. So I can definitely avoid seeing the midwife I talked to that night. The woman I talked to today was so much more reassuring. She told me in advance I might not be able to hear the heartbeat and even that didn't necessarily mean anything. She said before even checking me out that I was probably fine.

JIGGY · Sep 14th, 2009, 17:58 PM

brill news babe had tears in my eyes wen u said midwife said it was ok to cry and thn ur boys eyes welld up
hugs and take it easy
xxxxx

eeyore83 · Sep 14th, 2009, 18:02 PM

So glad everything is okay!

EternalRose · Sep 14th, 2009, 18:06 PM

WOW, Im so chuffed for you hun , the other midwife needs to be suspended or struck off or something..

lanaross · Sep 14th, 2009, 18:45 PM

Oh thank god. I knew you'd be okay! How crazy this other lady was, this is incredible. Just another confirmation for us to always get another opinion and not give up. I bet you'll sleep well now!

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lamplighter Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 144	Thank you all for your positive energy. Updated first post!

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Bingles Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,178	That is just brilliant fantastic Im over the moon for you. That other MW should be ashamed of herself I cried meself a little when you said you heared the heartbeat

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Jessa Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 5,827	Wonderful news! Yay!

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shocker Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,590	I cant believe how callous that midwife was!! Worrying you like that you should make a formal complaint that is very unnecesary stress for her to put you under! Im so glad to hear everythings ok and hope the rest of your pregnancy is stress free happy and healthy!

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urchin Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Midlands Posts: 2,058	that's a fab update lamplighter So pleased for you that all is well. If it were me, I certainly wouldn't be seeing midwife #1 again, that woman put you through horrendous torment - she should be ashamed of herself

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lamplighter Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 144	I'm in a program with 8 midwives. You can try to see all of them, or just a few. So I can definitely avoid seeing the midwife I talked to that night. The woman I talked to today was so much more reassuring. She told me in advance I might not be able to hear the heartbeat and even that didn't necessarily mean anything. She said before even checking me out that I was probably fine.

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Sep 14th, 2009, 17:58 PM	#37
JIGGY Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: auchterader,scotland,uk Posts: 780	brill news babe had tears in my eyes wen u said midwife said it was ok to cry and thn ur boys eyes welld up hugs and take it easy xxxxx

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eeyore83 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Posts: 965	So glad everything is okay!

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EternalRose Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 5,739	WOW, Im so chuffed for you hun , the other midwife needs to be suspended or struck off or something..

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Sep 14th, 2009, 18:45 PM	#40
lanaross Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Greenwich CT Posts: 3,029	Oh thank god. I knew you'd be okay! How crazy this other lady was, this is incredible. Just another confirmation for us to always get another opinion and not give up. I bet you'll sleep well now!

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