I have had such a terrible week its just been one thing after another...

1st of all me n my brother have fallen out big time, he still lives with my mum he is 18 in dec. and is goin out with one of my friends (3rd time this has happened, he always seems to go for my friends) only thing is he gets obsessed, she doesnt talk to me anymore cuz they are so loved up, he has a job at a gym twice a week in the evening, which doesnt bring much money in. he has recently got the sack from a very good job that he was lucky to get because he was always on the phone to his gf. he had a new job last wk but lost it because he ran out of wk 2 hrs into his shift without tellin them he was leaving because his gf had finished work and the next day called in sick cuz it was her day off... now when he is workin at the gym she goes n sits with him for his whole shift!! he doesnt pay my mum bored n she is really struggling because my dad recently left. he owes my mum £1000 my dad £1000 n me £50... so i had him about it because my mum is scared to say anything.

Then my OH, brothers gf, decided to give a dig at me because supposibly i have everything n she has nothing, she is at uni n her oh doesnt wanna live with her yet which is fair enough says he wants to get his studies done first. her dad pays for everything including all her uni fees and i am stuck at home while my OH works 12-14hrs most days of wk cuz we have just moved here n i dont no anyone n have no job due to the move as much as i am tryin for one. so i get fed up its the only thing i complain about but according to her i am pathetic and have everything, i have no money, no life atm, no friends, no quilifactions i dont think i have everything but i dont complain.

Then to top it all of me n OH had a row because of all of this gettin on top of me and i said i cudnt cope with stayin at home all the time, to the point where he said he had had enough of me moanin about it but to be fair i dont think i am being unreasonable when he workin about 60hrs a wk do you?

anyway sorry about the rant just needed to get it off my chest, i really dont feel pregnant anymore which is also upsettin me but i only have a wk till midwife appointment so should hopefully have a scan booked then xxx

sorry your having a rough time hun, family stuff sucks ! try and let it wash over you (easier said than done )

im sure buba is fine, you will start to lose symptoms now as the placenta takes over, i feel hardly pregnant at all now, and im 12 weeks, scan on thurs says all is well , its common

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Oh love i am so sorry to hear you are having such a terrible time. Please try and relax, for yourself and the little one. It's a beautiful day, try and get out for a bit xx

twinklestar is right, the further along pregnant you get the less you start to feel pregnant. Its the placenta taking over. I cant believe people are giving you a hard time when you are pregnant.... dont they have a heart?! my thoughts are with you x x

Thanks Guys Means alot, ended up going hospital today with cramps, doc says baby is fine, just got a bad water infection, great lol!

Thanks again though, sorry about the rant. x