Same as above... My DP didn't want anyone to know but i want to shout it from the rooftops!!

Had to tell me Boss because i push washing machines around and MUSTN'T do that anymore and people started guessing cos i quit smoking and started eating lots of fruit! then its just spread around!

He's not happy about it, as i'm sure you arn't but i think its sweet too, i'd be a lot happier if my DP wanted to shout it from the rooftops too!

Sorry for bumping this thread and I might just be paraniod but I'm sure he's just told his friend who is visiting tonight. I asked him not too for another couple of weeks, just till I have my twelve week scan. However, I have just been to the toilet and you know when you go out of the room and come back in and the conversation suddenly stops and no one really knows what to say. His friend quite obviously avoided looking at me and then after about 30 seconds they jumpily started another conversation, then left the room.

If he has I'm going to be a bit annoyed because that is the second person, without my permission and even after I've begged him not too. I couldn't cope with everyone knowing if something went wrong, I'm a very private person.

I asked my DH not to tell anyone (outside of family) that I was pregnant until the first trimester was over (actually we only waited until the 13 week mark when we got our first scan-but close enough). I know that I would have been highly upset about it if he had gone behind my back and started telling people that I was pregnant. I don't think you are overreacting at all. Maybe (if you haven't already) you can sit down with your DH and explain to him why it is so important to you to keep the pregnancy to yourselves in the first trimester? Maybe he just don't understand where you are coming from?

I'm sure he didn't mean to upset you, he obviously needed somebody to talk to and didn't want to hurt your feelings either