i feel so bad for my neighbor :(

amy16323 · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:13 AM

my neighbor was just here crying and her husband left her about 4 months ago.well a few days ago she was at the hospital because she was sick.well they told her she was pregnant.she didnt understand becuase she didnt have intercourse for awhile.they did an ultrasound and found out she was 5 months pregnant.she has 3 kids at home and their boys.she found out this time around shes having a girl.shes always wanted a girl.she dont think she can do this being single all these kids so she decided to give the girl up to her sister.i feel so bad for her right now.she told me to come visit her later because she needs all the support she can get.i just dont know what to tell her.i feel so bad.

vixta · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:20 AM

omg thats terrible! the best thing for you to do is be there for her and be as supportive as possible. she will apreciate it so much.
well done you x

Jkelmum · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:23 AM

tbh she needs to know that going from 3 to 4 children isnt that hard and she could do it alone ...it will break her heart giving the baby away x

vixta · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:35 AM

i totally agree there xx

starbucks101 · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:44 AM

She may change her mind people say they will do all sorts of things before the baby gets here but once the baby is in her arms im sure she will keep her.

How old are her boys? are they at an age where they can help out with bottles and things? I dont think the transition from 3 - 4 will be too immense, remind her how great a mum she is and she's a dab hand at it all now

amy16323 · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:45 AM

her sons are 6,3 and im not sure exactally how old the other one is but i know hes a little under a year.

lanaross · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:47 AM

I think she will change her mind. Did she try to contact the father?

amy16323 · Aug 30th, 2009, 09:49 AM

yep he wants nothing to do with the kids.hes a big partier.he left her and the three boys with hardly anything.he even took her cell phone that he bought her last year.

hopeforamirac · Aug 30th, 2009, 10:16 AM

All you can do is support her and tell her that she is a good mom and going from 3 -4 isnt diffucult (trust me i have 4 lol)

Just be there when she needs you

Aug 30th, 2009, 09:13 AM	#1
amy16323 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 410	i feel so bad for my neighbor :( my neighbor was just here crying and her husband left her about 4 months ago.well a few days ago she was at the hospital because she was sick.well they told her she was pregnant.she didnt understand becuase she didnt have intercourse for awhile.they did an ultrasound and found out she was 5 months pregnant.she has 3 kids at home and their boys.she found out this time around shes having a girl.shes always wanted a girl.she dont think she can do this being single all these kids so she decided to give the girl up to her sister.i feel so bad for her right now.she told me to come visit her later because she needs all the support she can get.i just dont know what to tell her.i feel so bad.

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:20 AM	#2
vixta Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: gloucesterhire Posts: 1,261	omg thats terrible! the best thing for you to do is be there for her and be as supportive as possible. she will apreciate it so much. well done you x

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:23 AM	#3
Jkelmum Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In my own bubble Posts: 17,574	tbh she needs to know that going from 3 to 4 children isnt that hard and she could do it alone ...it will break her heart giving the baby away x

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:35 AM	#4
vixta Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: gloucesterhire Posts: 1,261	i totally agree there xx

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:44 AM	#5
starbucks101 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Norfolk Posts: 1,033	She may change her mind people say they will do all sorts of things before the baby gets here but once the baby is in her arms im sure she will keep her. How old are her boys? are they at an age where they can help out with bottles and things? I dont think the transition from 3 - 4 will be too immense, remind her how great a mum she is and she's a dab hand at it all now

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:45 AM	#6
amy16323 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 410	her sons are 6,3 and im not sure exactally how old the other one is but i know hes a little under a year.

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:47 AM	#7
lanaross Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Greenwich CT Posts: 3,029	I think she will change her mind. Did she try to contact the father?

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Aug 30th, 2009, 09:49 AM	#8
amy16323 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 410	yep he wants nothing to do with the kids.hes a big partier.he left her and the three boys with hardly anything.he even took her cell phone that he bought her last year.

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Aug 30th, 2009, 10:16 AM	#9
hopeforamirac Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: uk Posts: 5,132	All you can do is support her and tell her that she is a good mom and going from 3 -4 isnt diffucult (trust me i have 4 lol) Just be there when she needs you

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