amy16323

my neighbor was just here crying and her husband left her about 4 months ago.well a few days ago she was at the hospital because she was sick.well they told her she was pregnant.she didnt understand becuase she didnt have intercourse for awhile.they did an ultrasound and found out she was 5 months pregnant.she has 3 kids at home and their boys.she found out this time around shes having a girl.shes always wanted a girl.she dont think she can do this being single all these kids so she decided to give the girl up to her sister.i feel so bad for her right now.she told me to come visit her later because she needs all the support she can get.i just dont know what to tell her.i feel so bad.

vixta

omg thats terrible! the best thing for you to do is be there for her and be as supportive as possible. she will apreciate it so much.
well done you x

serina27

tbh she needs to know that going from 3 to 4 children isnt that hard and she could do it alone ...it will break her heart giving the baby away x

vixta

i totally agree there xx

starbucks101

She may change her mind people say they will do all sorts of things before the baby gets here but once the baby is in her arms im sure she will keep her.


How old are her boys? are they at an age where they can help out with bottles and things? I dont think the transition from 3 - 4 will be too immense, remind her how great a mum she is and she's a dab hand at it all now

amy16323

her sons are 6,3 and im not sure exactally how old the other one is but i know hes a little under a year.

lanaross

I think she will change her mind. Did she try to contact the father?

amy16323

yep he wants nothing to do with the kids.hes a big partier.he left her and the three boys with hardly anything.he even took her cell phone that he bought her last year.

hopeforamirac

All you can do is support her and tell her that she is a good mom and going from 3 -4 isnt diffucult (trust me i have 4 lol)

Just be there when she needs you