16 & preg how do i go about??

jazmin92 · Aug 23rd, 2009, 09:28 AM

im 16 & preg, with oh, was a accident.

so im about 3-4 weeks & just found out not long ago i plan on letting it set in on me & OH before i tell my mum,

so the question is.....

do i go to the doctors about this??
what do i say to the doctors??
what will they do at the doctors??

**booflebump** · Aug 23rd, 2009, 09:31 AM

While the doctor probably wont do very much other than refer you to the midwife, it is maybe a good idea to visit and get advice. The doctor will ask when your last menstrual period was so they can calculate how far along you are, and your estimated due date. It must all be a bit of a shock at the moment, but there are lots of people to turn to, and lots of support to be found on here

x

starbucks101 · Aug 23rd, 2009, 11:13 AM

You will need to go to the doctors but you dont need to rush yourselves. Let the shock settle in and decide what you want to do first. xx

hopeforamirac · Aug 23rd, 2009, 11:16 AM

You will find lots of support here

You need to go to doctors he will ask some question about last period ectect.

good luck

KayCee114 · Aug 23rd, 2009, 11:21 AM

Have you had a look in the teen pregnancy part of the forum hun? There are lots of young ladies in there who will have gone through exactly what you are feeling at the moment.
Hope everything works out for you!

katieeandbump · Aug 23rd, 2009, 12:51 PM

hi hunn im 17 and pregnant! dont worry about a thing u get the odd people that are like oh ryt ur pregnant but most people now r soo used to teenage pregnancies no1 gives it a second thought! u need to go to the docs so they can confirm ur pregnancy and put u on folic acid

then u will eitha see a midwife or u will get a letter for ur 12 scan im sorry to say but most people dont take pregnancy seriously until after 12 weeks so this is pobs the next time u will get seen after the doctors

but if u need anythin just send me a message will be happy to help

xx

shocker · Aug 23rd, 2009, 17:02 PM

congratulations, the teen pregnancy forum here has been my lifeline since i found out.Im 18 and havnt told my mum yet, i had my first doctors appointment last week and he was a little awkward tbh he handed me a box of tissues when he was reading the results of my tests even though i wasnt crying.I just went in and said ive had a positive pregnancy test i need confirmation, he did the tests and told me it was a definate pregnancy.Then he said to go think things over for a few days and maybe contact a crisis pregnancy counsellor and come back then and of course to take folic acid.He also congratulated me on my recent exam results which was strange!! Id say get to the doctors as soon as you can because my doctor said the waiting list for ante natal care is quite long.Hope you and oh are well x

trashit · Aug 23rd, 2009, 17:20 PM

Congratulations hun.
Your GP will maybe do another pregnancy test just to double check, he will go through your options with you and if you have already chosen that you want to keep it he will refer you to a local midwife, your appointment will come through the post and you will also be referred to the hospital for a dating scan. I'm nearly 17 and pregnant btw. My mum found out at the same time as me, she's been really supportive. You need to sit your mum down when she's in a good mood and break it to her as nicely as possible. I think she'll know as soon as you ask her to sit down anyway lol. It'll be all good sweetie, there's nothing she can do about it now

xx

jazmin92 · Aug 23rd, 2009, 18:27 PM

Thanx

orange zebra · Aug 23rd, 2009, 21:05 PM

make an appointment for 12 weeks,
they will prob reffer you t a midwife,
and you could confirm it there??

=]

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jazmin92 Other Inactive Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 27	16 & preg how do i go about?? im 16 & preg, with oh, was a accident. so im about 3-4 weeks & just found out not long ago i plan on letting it set in on me & OH before i tell my mum, so the question is..... do i go to the doctors about this?? what do i say to the doctors?? what will they do at the doctors??
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Aug 23rd, 2009, 09:31 AM	#2
booflebump Other BabyandBump Team Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 19,615	While the doctor probably wont do very much other than refer you to the midwife, it is maybe a good idea to visit and get advice. The doctor will ask when your last menstrual period was so they can calculate how far along you are, and your estimated due date. It must all be a bit of a shock at the moment, but there are lots of people to turn to, and lots of support to be found on here x

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starbucks101 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Norfolk Posts: 1,033	You will need to go to the doctors but you dont need to rush yourselves. Let the shock settle in and decide what you want to do first. xx

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hopeforamirac Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: uk Posts: 5,138	You will find lots of support here You need to go to doctors he will ask some question about last period ectect. good luck

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KayCee114 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 733	Have you had a look in the teen pregnancy part of the forum hun? There are lots of young ladies in there who will have gone through exactly what you are feeling at the moment. Hope everything works out for you!

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Aug 23rd, 2009, 12:51 PM	#6
katieeandbump Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 1,428	hi hunn im 17 and pregnant! dont worry about a thing u get the odd people that are like oh ryt ur pregnant but most people now r soo used to teenage pregnancies no1 gives it a second thought! u need to go to the docs so they can confirm ur pregnancy and put u on folic acid then u will eitha see a midwife or u will get a letter for ur 12 scan im sorry to say but most people dont take pregnancy seriously until after 12 weeks so this is pobs the next time u will get seen after the doctors but if u need anythin just send me a message will be happy to help xx

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Aug 23rd, 2009, 17:02 PM	#7
shocker Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: London Posts: 3,590	congratulations, the teen pregnancy forum here has been my lifeline since i found out.Im 18 and havnt told my mum yet, i had my first doctors appointment last week and he was a little awkward tbh he handed me a box of tissues when he was reading the results of my tests even though i wasnt crying.I just went in and said ive had a positive pregnancy test i need confirmation, he did the tests and told me it was a definate pregnancy.Then he said to go think things over for a few days and maybe contact a crisis pregnancy counsellor and come back then and of course to take folic acid.He also congratulated me on my recent exam results which was strange!! Id say get to the doctors as soon as you can because my doctor said the waiting list for ante natal care is quite long.Hope you and oh are well x

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Aug 23rd, 2009, 17:20 PM	#8
trashit Pregnant (Expecting) Join Date: May 2009 Location: YORKSHIREEE :) Posts: 4,745	Congratulations hun. Your GP will maybe do another pregnancy test just to double check, he will go through your options with you and if you have already chosen that you want to keep it he will refer you to a local midwife, your appointment will come through the post and you will also be referred to the hospital for a dating scan. I'm nearly 17 and pregnant btw. My mum found out at the same time as me, she's been really supportive. You need to sit your mum down when she's in a good mood and break it to her as nicely as possible. I think she'll know as soon as you ask her to sit down anyway lol. It'll be all good sweetie, there's nothing she can do about it now xx

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Aug 23rd, 2009, 18:27 PM	#9
jazmin92 Other Inactive Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 27	Thanx
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orange zebra Other Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: North Wales Posts: 77	make an appointment for 12 weeks, they will prob reffer you t a midwife, and you could confirm it there?? =]

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