Angelica

Me & H have been arguing alot of the past few days & I've spent 1 evening crying myself to sleep & the other holding back the tears & grovelling to him..

I am worried these arguements will affect the baby... Im on the verge of crying now to be honest but am fighting the tears...

charlottecco2

i know exactly how you feel, i've been crying for most of the day because of a stupid arguement with my fiance. these petty rows are really getting me down. men do not understand pregnancy at all. i hope you are okay xx

Jazzy

Hormones will make you feel more emotional hun so you will feel like crying

jchaney85

Ive felt the same way lately we just argue and argue there are times I just have to walk away.

Angelica

But I'm grovelling & being all nice and he is making no exception that im preg
Instead I get told not to use it an excuse
Im so down

Ellianna

Oh goodness, if you read one of my lasts posts you will see that I feel exactly the same!
It has got better lately, I think just by me and my OH taking a bit of time when an arguement starts to calm down a bit and talk about it rather than going straight into an arguement. He didn't realise how upset I was about it and now I've explained it to him he's being much better.
Hope things get better for you hun, I'm sure they will
xx

Charliepops

Is this your first?? It was the same with me and my husband 1st time round, he couldn´t get his head round it cos he wasn´t the one feeling pregnant. Once he can see a bump, he should understand a bit more. Chin up

poppy

Men probably think that if they can't see anything physical then it can't possibly be affecting you. This is probably why they don't understand PMT!

anita665

Me and OH were also the same to start with. Probably right up till about 15 weeks. It was really horrible but it calmed down.

Stress isn't good for the baby because they're meant to pick up on the hormones released and it can make a more stressy baby once they're born but if the stress calms down after the first few months it will be fine.

vickilouise

my OH is fine infact brilliant its my dad thats the problem he doesnt know when to shut the f**k up he likes to push you as far as he can get you.
take this mornin for instance, i was litterally awake all last night, couldnt sleep at all, and i couldnt go to work an exhusted mess so i rang work n just said i wasnt well. so about 12 (i was in bed, didnt go to bed till 8 though) my dad came into my room saying im a big lazy mess etc... i dont normally rise to the bait of the sh*te that comes from his mouth but i dont know wether its down to sleep depravation or hormones, i took off at him and reminded him of a few things... this isnt good for me or the baby