I am mis-carrying - dont want to live anymore - Page 2

Laughing Girl · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:23 AM

Hi again Laura

Just had a quick look on the internet and found these two ladies..........they both have website plus are both properly qualified and accredited........perhaps they might be worth a look when you feel up to it?

Jo Couling
15 Leyland Close
Bowburn
Durham
County Durham
DH6 5DD
View map Jo Couling
tel: 0191 3772387
web: www.counsellingnortheast.org.uk

Gill Powton
Newcastle Upon Tyne
Tyne And Wear
NE5 Gill Powton
tel: 07723307310
web: www.handsofanangel.co.uk

xx

Lauraaraa · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Laughing Girl

Hi again Laura

Just had a quick look on the internet and found these two ladies..........they both have website plus are both properly qualified and accredited........perhaps they might be worth a look when you feel up to it?

Jo Couling
15 Leyland Close
Bowburn
Durham
County Durham
DH6 5DD
View map Jo Couling
tel: 0191 3772387
web: www.counsellingnortheast.org.uk

Gill Powton
Newcastle Upon Tyne
Tyne And Wear
NE5 Gill Powton
tel: 07723307310
web: www.handsofanangel.co.uk

xx

helloo

aww thankyou so much thats brill

will defo be going for help though give my body a few months to get better etc and recover from everything

just think maybe i should have waited longer after op to get pregnant

xx

danielle1987 · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:32 AM

You musnt blame yourself, Try and be strong and remember everyone is here for you if you need to get anything out xxx

Laughing Girl · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:36 AM

I'm always here if you would like to talk x x x

Justme · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:39 AM

Please dont punish yourself hun,there may be some other explanation for the bleeding ,can you not get yourself back down to the hospital as this is definately an emergancy.We are all here for you,you are not alone hun.We care about you and are worried for you

MissRhead · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:45 AM

Please dont blame yourself, their is many reasons these things can happen, i think most people look for something they did wrong, but the truth is they DO just happen, thinking of you hun, stay strong xxx

Lauraaraa · Aug 8th, 2009, 10:52 AM

i rang the hospital on thursday and all they said they will do is keep me in over night and i wont get a scan still until monday.
they said unless i flood the sanitary towel then not to go back, well i'm not flooding one, havnt flooded at night either i usually do when i am on my period but havnt this time

the nurse also told me they DO have a scanning machine on the ward but cant use it as only certain consultants are trained to use it

will hang fire til monday. at least everything will be gone by then and they will know

just wish i know now

so hard.

i dont know what happens or what you are supposed to see when you mis carry never had one, keep googling it but it comes up with all sorts

x

Seity · Aug 8th, 2009, 11:17 AM

Like others have said, this most certainly is not your fault. Talk to someone and start getting the help you need and then you will be happier and healthier and know when it feels right to try again. I have a very good friend with anorexia and she's been working very hard to get healthy because some day she wants kids and knows she needs to be healthy. She had a miscarriage a few years back and I can see how much she wants a baby of her own. She's improved so much with support from her friends and her nutritionist, I believe she'll get her wish when she's ready.

hellohefalump · Aug 8th, 2009, 11:20 AM

Laura I'm so sorry to hear what's happened...

I really hope you'll be ok. I don't think this is your fault - you've got an illness, and didn't choose it. Bulimia's a horrible illness and anyone who thinks that people choose to have it are very ignorant. It's not even certain that it caused this to happen - people are sick in pregnancy all the time and go on to have healthy babies.

I hope to see you here again sometime in the future, all better from your eating disorder, and pregnant and happy again.

2bananas · Aug 8th, 2009, 12:16 PM

I am so sorry that you are having to deal with such heartache.

Please do not blame yourself sweetheart. My thoughts are with you x

Aug 8th, 2009, 10:23 AM	#11
Laughing Girl Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: North London Posts: 1,166	Hi again Laura Just had a quick look on the internet and found these two ladies..........they both have website plus are both properly qualified and accredited........perhaps they might be worth a look when you feel up to it? Jo Couling 15 Leyland Close Bowburn Durham County Durham DH6 5DD View map Jo Couling tel: 0191 3772387 web: www.counsellingnortheast.org.uk Gill Powton Newcastle Upon Tyne Tyne And Wear NE5 Gill Powton tel: 07723307310 web: www.handsofanangel.co.uk xx

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Laughing Girl Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: North London Posts: 1,166	I'm always here if you would like to talk x x x

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Justme Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Ask me Posts: 3,395	Please dont punish yourself hun,there may be some other explanation for the bleeding ,can you not get yourself back down to the hospital as this is definately an emergancy.We are all here for you,you are not alone hun.We care about you and are worried for you

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MissRhead Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Crewe Posts: 1,959	Please dont blame yourself, their is many reasons these things can happen, i think most people look for something they did wrong, but the truth is they DO just happen, thinking of you hun, stay strong xxx

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Aug 8th, 2009, 10:52 AM	#17
Lauraaraa Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: North East Posts: 2,954	i rang the hospital on thursday and all they said they will do is keep me in over night and i wont get a scan still until monday. they said unless i flood the sanitary towel then not to go back, well i'm not flooding one, havnt flooded at night either i usually do when i am on my period but havnt this time the nurse also told me they DO have a scanning machine on the ward but cant use it as only certain consultants are trained to use it will hang fire til monday. at least everything will be gone by then and they will know just wish i know now so hard. i dont know what happens or what you are supposed to see when you mis carry never had one, keep googling it but it comes up with all sorts x

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Aug 8th, 2009, 11:17 AM	#18
Seity Other BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Ithaca, NY Posts: 12,807	Like others have said, this most certainly is not your fault. Talk to someone and start getting the help you need and then you will be happier and healthier and know when it feels right to try again. I have a very good friend with anorexia and she's been working very hard to get healthy because some day she wants kids and knows she needs to be healthy. She had a miscarriage a few years back and I can see how much she wants a baby of her own. She's improved so much with support from her friends and her nutritionist, I believe she'll get her wish when she's ready.

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Aug 8th, 2009, 11:20 AM	#19
hellohefalump Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1,814	Laura I'm so sorry to hear what's happened... I really hope you'll be ok. I don't think this is your fault - you've got an illness, and didn't choose it. Bulimia's a horrible illness and anyone who thinks that people choose to have it are very ignorant. It's not even certain that it caused this to happen - people are sick in pregnancy all the time and go on to have healthy babies. I hope to see you here again sometime in the future, all better from your eating disorder, and pregnant and happy again.

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Aug 8th, 2009, 12:16 PM	#20
2bananas Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: England Posts: 1,624	I am so sorry that you are having to deal with such heartache. Please do not blame yourself sweetheart. My thoughts are with you x

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