Hi andimac
Thats a great idea to keep each other updated.
Try not to worry your self honey. The best piece of advice i could give you is that advice my neighbor gave me (she had a baby girl over a year ago).
She told me to avoid books and Internet websites as you are in danger of self diagnosing and worrying your self to death.
Just take advice from other ppl who have experienced pg and from doctors etc. Im sure everything will be fine
From what i know some spotting can be normal so try to relax as stress is not good for your baby.
Take care and keep in touch. Just pm me if you need someone to talk to x