I've asked him and if I want him to come he will. He would love to come to every appointment but its hard to get off work and if nothings happening there's really no point. So he's going to come to the important ones like scans and hearing the heartbeat etc.
I'm quite happy to go alone, doesn't bother me in the slightest.
And I know more about his family history than he does (he never listens

).
So I'm all prepared and just counting down the days.
Thanks for the advice.
Charm X