Anyone else feel like this?

lisa1014 · Dec 31st, 2007, 11:47 AM

The motherly worries have hit me like a ton of bricks. I have the weirdest fears that the baby isn't growing, doesn't have a heart beat, isn't healthy, etc. DH thinks I'm crazy and that everything is fine. I haven't had bleeding or cramps but I'm still worried that the baby isn't okay. Ugh, this is torture!

babe2ooo · Dec 31st, 2007, 11:52 AM

aww i know how you feel until you have your 1st mid-wife app you really dont know, but i'm sure everything is fine, just think you have another 40yrs of worrying as it will alway be your baby for life and they say mothers alway worry

Samantha675 · Dec 31st, 2007, 12:06 PM

Oh yeah, I was convinced there was nothing there before my first US. I still worry, I will always worry, it is just part of being a mommy!

Tinylo · Dec 31st, 2007, 12:14 PM

I know how you feel too huni

Every little niggle, ache or pain worries me, everything I do I worry if bean is ok, everything I eat I hope it's good for bean, etc etc.

It's natural to worry, we spend so long hoping to get PG that when we do, we just want everything to be ok, which I'm sure it will be

I guess this gets us into practise for the following years to come

I'm afraid to say it won't get any easier over the next 9 months, my sister has 1 gorgeous little boy and she worried the whole way through.....oh joy 9 months of being neurotic, DH might just have a nervous breakdown putting up with me

lisa1014 · Dec 31st, 2007, 12:16 PM

Thanks for the kind, reassuring words ladies! Seems like I'm indeed not the only one who feels like this. It's just a mommy thing

nikkybaby · Dec 31st, 2007, 12:35 PM

Don't worry...I felt like that for the longest time. I was always worried that when we got a scan, or at any appointment, the baby wouldn't have a heartbeat. For some reason I couldn't shake that feeling until I actually could feel him move on a daily basis. It's just the motherly thing kicking in I guess...

Michele1026 · Jan 1st, 2008, 01:57 AM

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Originally Posted by nikkybaby

Don't worry...I felt like that for the longest time. I was always worried that when we got a scan, or at any appointment, the baby wouldn't have a heartbeat. For some reason I couldn't shake that feeling until I actually could feel him move on a daily basis. It's just the motherly thing kicking in I guess...

I agree ! Motherly think kicking in its the start of always worring about them !

My brain has not stopped about EVERYTHING ! im glad we all have this in common to help each other !

clb1982 · Jan 1st, 2008, 13:53 PM

Hi lisa and girls.

I thought i was going crazy as I've only got my BFP and Ive been worrying like crazy already

I cant help fearing that something will go wrong and actually terrified. Df keeps reassuring me everything is ok. I just don't want to let my baby or my df down as they both mean the world to me.

Im really glad I'm not on my own with my fears and never realized we are all thinking the same

EFM · Jan 1st, 2008, 14:19 PM

Yup....

Got my 1st appt tomorrow and worried they won't find heart beat

Dec 31st, 2007, 11:47 AM	#1
lisa1014 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: MN Posts: 59	Anyone else feel like this? The motherly worries have hit me like a ton of bricks. I have the weirdest fears that the baby isn't growing, doesn't have a heart beat, isn't healthy, etc. DH thinks I'm crazy and that everything is fine. I haven't had bleeding or cramps but I'm still worried that the baby isn't okay. Ugh, this is torture!

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babe2ooo Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Gloucester Posts: 5,627	aww i know how you feel until you have your 1st mid-wife app you really dont know, but i'm sure everything is fine, just think you have another 40yrs of worrying as it will alway be your baby for life and they say mothers alway worry

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Samantha675 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,123	Oh yeah, I was convinced there was nothing there before my first US. I still worry, I will always worry, it is just part of being a mommy!

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Dec 31st, 2007, 12:14 PM	#4
Tinylo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Gloucestershire Posts: 539	I know how you feel too huni Every little niggle, ache or pain worries me, everything I do I worry if bean is ok, everything I eat I hope it's good for bean, etc etc. It's natural to worry, we spend so long hoping to get PG that when we do, we just want everything to be ok, which I'm sure it will be I guess this gets us into practise for the following years to come I'm afraid to say it won't get any easier over the next 9 months, my sister has 1 gorgeous little boy and she worried the whole way through.....oh joy 9 months of being neurotic, DH might just have a nervous breakdown putting up with me

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Dec 31st, 2007, 12:16 PM	#5
lisa1014 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: MN Posts: 59	Thanks for the kind, reassuring words ladies! Seems like I'm indeed not the only one who feels like this. It's just a mommy thing

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Dec 31st, 2007, 12:35 PM	#6
nikkybaby Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 981	Don't worry...I felt like that for the longest time. I was always worried that when we got a scan, or at any appointment, the baby wouldn't have a heartbeat. For some reason I couldn't shake that feeling until I actually could feel him move on a daily basis. It's just the motherly thing kicking in I guess...

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Jan 1st, 2008, 13:53 PM	#8
clb1982 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 533	Hi lisa and girls. I thought i was going crazy as I've only got my BFP and Ive been worrying like crazy already I cant help fearing that something will go wrong and actually terrified. Df keeps reassuring me everything is ok. I just don't want to let my baby or my df down as they both mean the world to me. Im really glad I'm not on my own with my fears and never realized we are all thinking the same

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Jan 1st, 2008, 14:19 PM	#9
EFM Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 403	Yup.... Got my 1st appt tomorrow and worried they won't find heart beat

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