Filled with fear and worry....

Early_Bump · Jul 9th, 2009, 13:16 PM

Well i cant belive how quick time is coming round I'm 11+3 today and its all coming back to me... for those who dont know my story...

33wks kates now 9
22wks Harry born sleeping aug 2000
28wks Jak now 7
27wks Kyle now 5
25+6wks Tj 4 in aug
24+3wks Ella died after 5hrs 8mins in april 2007
25+5wks Lily-mae now 17months

With Tj, Ella and Lily my waters broke between 18-19wks.... I've been so positive so far and been determand to get a nice 36+weeker... but these last few days its all gone to pot my consultant who has been amazing with my last one, agreed a care plan back in jan so far none of its been done i have a meeting with her tomoro as ive been to clinic3 times and she's not been thier... but in my latest email she is saying we'll play it by ear... with regards to a stitch being done at 12 wks... in jan she said we'll stitch regardless of cerivx so we can try to prevent your waters going and your cervix shortening in jan she said this was my only option of hoepfully getting to term... that and a higher dose of tinzaprin for my factor 5... so so worried.

I mean i know for a fact that when i start me serial cervical scans next week my cerivx will be fine it always is on 12,13,14,15,16,17 week scan then at 18 im funneling and then they wont stitch me.. then WHAM BAM 3 -4 days later my waters go... just so worried im gonna end up with another prem.. and highly possibly a severly disabled child we already ahve tj adn lily who both are severly disabled who wouldnt of tried again if we didnt belive we could get to term...

Just wanna go to that meeting tomoro and point this out... on a happy note 3 wks tomoro til we find out what flavor we have still 110% sure its a girl and we done an intergender which ahs also said girl..

Thanks for listening girls...

xxxxxx

QTPie · Jul 9th, 2009, 13:21 PM

Hoping that everything goes really well for you - hang in there x

QT

hayley x · Jul 9th, 2009, 13:30 PM

I am sorry to hear of your losses

I definately think you should push for a stitch this time round going by what they said earlier in the year. Wishing you a long, boring, uneventful pregnancy xxx

minime2009 · Jul 9th, 2009, 13:32 PM

Oh hun that's so sad

I really wish you all the best this time. You look after yourself

Pingu · Jul 9th, 2009, 13:34 PM

Wish you all the best with your pregnancy x

jenny25 · Jul 9th, 2009, 13:41 PM

honey can they not stitch your cervix closed ? with my first paul i had low fluid all the way till 24 weeks when mine started leaking well what was left unfort he passed away so my consultant said that they would keep a close eye on me and give cervical scans and they said to me then about putting in a stitch if they think that i was gonna loose fluid x

BunMum · Jul 9th, 2009, 17:21 PM

Oh that is so tragic, I'm so sorry that things have turned out this way for you. I would definately push for a stitch. I really hope this pregnancy goes to term, I wish you lots and lots of luck.

Gem x

BBonBoard · Jul 9th, 2009, 19:34 PM

good luck i hope that everything works out well for you.

becky77 · Jul 10th, 2009, 04:07 AM

I agree with the others push for the stitch , you know your body and this has got to be worth a go , wishing you a lovely full term pregnancy xx

ShellysBelly · Jul 10th, 2009, 04:10 AM

Demand the stitch sweetie.

Nevermind this play it by ear BS, you know your own body at this stage.

I wouldn't be too happy with the doc not being there every time you go to the clinic, I wonder if you could request a transfer to a different one?

Jul 9th, 2009, 13:16 PM	#1
Early_Bump Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Fleetwood Lancashire Posts: 647	Filled with fear and worry.... Well i cant belive how quick time is coming round I'm 11+3 today and its all coming back to me... for those who dont know my story... 33wks kates now 9 22wks Harry born sleeping aug 2000 28wks Jak now 7 27wks Kyle now 5 25+6wks Tj 4 in aug 24+3wks Ella died after 5hrs 8mins in april 2007 25+5wks Lily-mae now 17months With Tj, Ella and Lily my waters broke between 18-19wks.... I've been so positive so far and been determand to get a nice 36+weeker... but these last few days its all gone to pot my consultant who has been amazing with my last one, agreed a care plan back in jan so far none of its been done i have a meeting with her tomoro as ive been to clinic3 times and she's not been thier... but in my latest email she is saying we'll play it by ear... with regards to a stitch being done at 12 wks... in jan she said we'll stitch regardless of cerivx so we can try to prevent your waters going and your cervix shortening in jan she said this was my only option of hoepfully getting to term... that and a higher dose of tinzaprin for my factor 5... so so worried. I mean i know for a fact that when i start me serial cervical scans next week my cerivx will be fine it always is on 12,13,14,15,16,17 week scan then at 18 im funneling and then they wont stitch me.. then WHAM BAM 3 -4 days later my waters go... just so worried im gonna end up with another prem.. and highly possibly a severly disabled child we already ahve tj adn lily who both are severly disabled who wouldnt of tried again if we didnt belive we could get to term... Just wanna go to that meeting tomoro and point this out... on a happy note 3 wks tomoro til we find out what flavor we have still 110% sure its a girl and we done an intergender which ahs also said girl.. Thanks for listening girls... xxxxxx

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Jul 9th, 2009, 13:21 PM	#2
QTPie Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,465	Hoping that everything goes really well for you - hang in there x QT

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Jul 9th, 2009, 13:30 PM	#3
hayley x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Here! Posts: 18,314	I am sorry to hear of your losses I definately think you should push for a stitch this time round going by what they said earlier in the year. Wishing you a long, boring, uneventful pregnancy xxx

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minime2009 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 441	Oh hun that's so sad I really wish you all the best this time. You look after yourself

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Jul 9th, 2009, 13:34 PM	#5
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jenny25 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: essex Posts: 5,166	honey can they not stitch your cervix closed ? with my first paul i had low fluid all the way till 24 weeks when mine started leaking well what was left unfort he passed away so my consultant said that they would keep a close eye on me and give cervical scans and they said to me then about putting in a stitch if they think that i was gonna loose fluid x

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Jul 9th, 2009, 17:21 PM	#7
BunMum Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Carnforth, Lancashire Posts: 251	Oh that is so tragic, I'm so sorry that things have turned out this way for you. I would definately push for a stitch. I really hope this pregnancy goes to term, I wish you lots and lots of luck. Gem x

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BBonBoard Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Central California Posts: 2,981	good luck i hope that everything works out well for you.

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Jul 10th, 2009, 04:07 AM	#9
becky77 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: hereford Posts: 1,529	I agree with the others push for the stitch , you know your body and this has got to be worth a go , wishing you a lovely full term pregnancy xx

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ShellysBelly Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Gaillimh Posts: 430	Demand the stitch sweetie. Nevermind this play it by ear BS, you know your own body at this stage. I wouldn't be too happy with the doc not being there every time you go to the clinic, I wonder if you could request a transfer to a different one?

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