Prregnant after 2 mmc's and v anxious - anyone else in similar situation??

AS1 · Jun 3rd, 2009, 16:21 PM

Hey

I got my

last weekend and am delighted but also v anxious!!!

I have been pregnant twice before in the last 15 months and have had no bleeding & really strong symptoms both times, including heartbeats at early scans - only to discover at 12 week scans that there was no heatbeat.

The last time I was in for a d&c the consultant offered to give me regular scans when I got my

again so hopefully this time all will be good!

Just wondering is anyone else in the same position or have any positive stories after mc?

tansey · Jun 3rd, 2009, 17:28 PM

So sorry for your losses! I have had a MC but it was early on and a missed one must be even more heart breaking!
I wish you loads of look and hope the scans ease your mind!

flowertot · Jun 3rd, 2009, 17:39 PM

I've never had a missed miscarriage but i've had 3 early pregnancy losses (between 4-5.5 weeks). i'm now 7 weeks pregnant and worrying like mad.

sending you lots of

i hope all works out for you x

Shelby2007 · Jun 3rd, 2009, 22:55 PM

in Feb I went for an early scan at 9 weeks and found identical twin babies with no heatbeats

it was terrible. I just found out I was pregnant on saturday.. And am very nervous! Trying to stay positive tho! I'm here if you ever wanna talk!

Fluxuspoem · Jun 4th, 2009, 02:03 AM

Hi

I had a missed miscarriage back in December 08 and I am pregnant again now, almost out of the first trimester though ( THANK GOD)

I just want to say that I have been a bag of nerves the whole time, but the positive influence and mental attitude of my family and some of the ladies here online, really helped me see this pregnancy as a completely different siutation to the previous one and made me see things with a more positive light.

Stay strong and always remember that this is different, its always a different story each pregnancy.

Big hugs XX

Chilli · Jun 4th, 2009, 03:25 AM

AS1, completely understand how you feel as have had similar experience. I've started a buddy thread called "Team Angels Graduates" where we're all in the same boat if you wanna join us. Hope to see you there

QTPie · Jun 4th, 2009, 08:14 AM

Only one MC here (so far, fingers crossed) at 5.5 weeks back in March. Am just passing that point now (will be 6 weeks this weekend).

Yes am nervous - so don't want it to happen again

- and to be honest, maybe finding it a little harder to "bond" with my baby at the moment (threw myself into last time).

I am taking every day/week/scan as it comes and praying.

Trying to keep positive: doing what I can to have a happy, healthy pregnancy and, beyond that, trying not to stress about what I cannot control. Since stress isn't positive.

Good luck to all of us.

QT

AS1 · Jun 4th, 2009, 10:14 AM

Thanks so much for all your kind words - its nice to know I have company!!!

Heres hoping its third time lucky!

I wish all you guys the best of luck too....

AS1 · Jun 4th, 2009, 10:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tansey

So sorry for your losses! I have had a MC but it was early on and a missed one must be even more heart breaking!
I wish you loads of look and hope the scans ease your mind!

Hey Tansey

Just looking we are at excatly the same stage in our pregnancies!!! I will keep an eye out for how things are progressing with you!

Jun 3rd, 2009, 16:21 PM	#1
AS1 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 397	Prregnant after 2 mmc's and v anxious - anyone else in similar situation?? Hey I got my last weekend and am delighted but also v anxious!!! I have been pregnant twice before in the last 15 months and have had no bleeding & really strong symptoms both times, including heartbeats at early scans - only to discover at 12 week scans that there was no heatbeat. The last time I was in for a d&c the consultant offered to give me regular scans when I got my again so hopefully this time all will be good! Just wondering is anyone else in the same position or have any positive stories after mc?

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Jun 3rd, 2009, 17:28 PM	#2
tansey Other BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Warwickshire Posts: 20,530	So sorry for your losses! I have had a MC but it was early on and a missed one must be even more heart breaking! I wish you loads of look and hope the scans ease your mind!

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flowertot Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Cheshire, UK Posts: 876	I've never had a missed miscarriage but i've had 3 early pregnancy losses (between 4-5.5 weeks). i'm now 7 weeks pregnant and worrying like mad. sending you lots of i hope all works out for you x

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Jun 3rd, 2009, 22:55 PM	#4
Shelby2007 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: TEXAS Posts: 1,345	in Feb I went for an early scan at 9 weeks and found identical twin babies with no heatbeats it was terrible. I just found out I was pregnant on saturday.. And am very nervous! Trying to stay positive tho! I'm here if you ever wanna talk!

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Jun 4th, 2009, 02:03 AM	#5
Fluxuspoem Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: London, UK Posts: 2,825	Hi I had a missed miscarriage back in December 08 and I am pregnant again now, almost out of the first trimester though ( THANK GOD) I just want to say that I have been a bag of nerves the whole time, but the positive influence and mental attitude of my family and some of the ladies here online, really helped me see this pregnancy as a completely different siutation to the previous one and made me see things with a more positive light. Stay strong and always remember that this is different, its always a different story each pregnancy. Big hugs XX

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Jun 4th, 2009, 03:25 AM	#6
Chilli Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Wilts Posts: 1,544	AS1, completely understand how you feel as have had similar experience. I've started a buddy thread called "Team Angels Graduates" where we're all in the same boat if you wanna join us. Hope to see you there

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Jun 4th, 2009, 08:14 AM	#7
QTPie Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 4,465	Only one MC here (so far, fingers crossed) at 5.5 weeks back in March. Am just passing that point now (will be 6 weeks this weekend). Yes am nervous - so don't want it to happen again - and to be honest, maybe finding it a little harder to "bond" with my baby at the moment (threw myself into last time). I am taking every day/week/scan as it comes and praying. Trying to keep positive: doing what I can to have a happy, healthy pregnancy and, beyond that, trying not to stress about what I cannot control. Since stress isn't positive. Good luck to all of us. QT

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Jun 4th, 2009, 10:14 AM	#8
AS1 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 397	Thanks so much for all your kind words - its nice to know I have company!!! Heres hoping its third time lucky! I wish all you guys the best of luck too....

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