Wobbles

I googled so much with our first ordeal which was sadly ectopic and came up with alsortsssss.

Your hubby is a wise man Suzan. Honestly chick it will give you answers you want to hear and those you don't it really isn't a good thing

x

Samantha675

Oh Susan, I am so sorry you are having a hard time. I was having lots of pains on my left side starting about 4-5 weeks. So I went to the doctor, and she couldn't even find the sac, much less the baby. Which made me nervous, but she didn't seem concerned. I won't bother saying don't worry or stress, how can you not. My thoughts are with you!!

elles28

Thinking of you hun fingers still crossed it will be good news xx

suzan

I don't know what to do with myself. I am going nuts!!!

I dont know what to do??? Please someone help me?
This is serious I swear I am not ok at all. I think I am suffering from depression now.

Wobbles

Have you had any bleeding Suzan?

Your not going nuts sweetie your reaction & feeling depressed right now is normal and definately to be expected. Your OH seems supportive (?) which is a good thing.

suzan

No, I havent had any bleeding, nothing.

DH is great, he can try harder, and do everything right, but nothing is helping me. Nothing

elles28

I think you should go to docs & ask to have your HCG checked at least then you will know what is going on. When are you due to go for scan? No Bleeding is such a good sign

suzan

To tell u the truth, I wanted to draw blood today. DH knew and he wouldnt allow me do that. He says that it will only make me more worried and depressed bec if results come ok, i will be worried on why then the sac was empty and if it results were bad, i still would have to wait for the u/s next week. I understand what he is trying to do, but things are harder when u wana do something and u cant, i hope u know what i mean.

As for another doc, i called him, and no need to make appointment, just go early and when my turn comes i see him. We are planning to see him this Thursday. I called DH and told him to take me today, but still didnt accept. Ok DH is great and supportive, and I know he is right, but he can make things even harder for me. He has been amazing I swear, but its so hard when u think i wana do something and then someone says the opposite and is right.

Had anyone heard of this situation? the one i am going thru? I have read some storied, ones with good outcome, others with no good outcomes. You can call me crazy, I even did 2 HPTs, one yesterday with a cheapie one and it came strong positive in less than 3 seconds and today got a Clearblue one and got the plus sign so dark in less than 3 seconds too. HCG should be high but still i am going nuts here.

Wobbles

Want me to be honest - I'd lie to try and get an US quicker. I know some may not agree but I would so ...... I think 2 weeks is too much even if it was just a check that sac was still there a week later.

Rquesting hCG levels may be a good idea if they gave you one on Monday then again Wednesday it would give you an idea if they are rising as normal. Go and speak to your doc Suzan and demand to have something done. Its awful feeling it really is

elles28

I totally agree with Wobbles........you should not have to go through this....as for you dh he is doing what he thinks is best for you but as he is not in your shoes it's easy for him to just wait & see but not that easy for you....as I told you before I had an empty sac and an U/S 6 days later showed a heartbeat.......this was 10 years ago!! (Tell Lies ....If I was in your position I am in a way but I got bloods done & they asked ME when I wanted to come back for U/S I would) You need to know whats happening........!!