Jules

Please tell me if i am over reacting... my OH has arranged like 3 "do's" for himself to go on before xmas, and i must admit i am a little pee'd off!

One (i know a little selfish as i can't drink) but what a waste of money on beer that could be saved for many baby items we need!

Two, why do you need to go out with work twice?!

Three, I aint invited!

Four, he's on about arranging more with our friends that i can go on!


Am i being a cow?!? LOL Anyone else begrudge wasting money now were preggers?!?

toriaaaaTRASH

My OH is exactly the same but I can't be bothered to get angry about it. He can go get drunk, not invite me, and do what he wants. But when I'm hormonal, angry, unwell and extremely pregnant he can F*** right off, I won't hold back atall

As for money he's still giving most of his money from work to his brother for DRUG MONEY! Like you would pay for your brothers drug habbit? Makes me mad! He keeps asking me if I want him to get this, and that, and it's never baby stuff, always stupid things that I don't need. Sometimes I want to scream at him WHAT ARE YOU DOING?! But I can't

Amanda

I'd be pee'd off about 3 Xmas do's even if I wasn't pg or had kids!

I'm going on one and the meal, live band and disco are paid for my the company, so all I'm paying for is drinks. And DH is a greenkeeper, so his is a round of golf during the day (when they should be working, so it's a day off as well), then a meal and drinks in the clubhouse.

That's all we're doing, we've both turned down another one each, and that's what you have to do when you have a family!

Jules

I knew i wasn't over reacting! Them 3 are not even the proper xmas do which is actually after christmas (which i am invited to!)

I myself am going for lunch with work during lunch hour!

Men!

tinytoes

I suppose I would be a bit miffed. One works do should be enough no?
But dont get your knickers in a twist, just tell him how you feel. If he's still a pain after than then feel to rant!!

But Toria...how do you cope? I mean..god, that'd drive me really really mad. really

skiwi

hi hun, i would be pee'd off to, specially that you are pregnant, and baby things are not cheap.... can't you arrange something for yourself, with some close girl friends, a nice meal, see how he feels

tinytoes

yes on his nights out either meet a friend of get him to buy you a big box of chocolates, some hot chocolate and squirty cream and mini marshmallows and have a big soak in teh bath with a good book. lovely!!


And you can then be all smug the next day when it's him that has the hangover.
Ooh, is it 9am? That hoovering must be done!....heheheheh

Jules

Oh he WILL suffer!!!

Last year i was supposed to pick up, waited up ages, didn't call, tumbled in at 4am could hardly talk!! was not impressed! this year i know where they are going mwahahahaha think he will obey me this year, doesn't want pregnant GF turning up in PJ's and slippers carrying on!

Amanda

Why leave it that late? He's going to be a Daddy soon and has to get used to the early mornings - hangover or no hangover! Wake him at 6am Jules!

Jules

Or do what he does on a morning (he goes to work an hour and half before me everyday) and switches all lights on when i'm in bed and rattle around house, soooo annoying! esp if he has hang over!