An old guy friend of mine that I went to high school with added me onto his myspace the other day. We used to talk through texting, had a class together, and would wave in the hall. We weren't close but we were still close enough to be called friends. Well he asked how I was and I told him I was pregnant. Rob (we'll call him that) bombarded me with the most ridiculous questions.....no joke.

our convo over a text.

Rob: are you going to deff keep baby? if so why? how did this happen?
Me: yes im going to keep baby, it became my responsibility when i became careless and had unprotected sex and i got preg with the pull out method.
Rob: are you and the dad still together? you were having sex?
Me: no we're not and....yes i was having sex?
Rob: i just dont understand how this happened! how did it happen?
Me: i didnt use protection...
Rob: do you still have sex?
Me: no i had a blood clot and me and the dad arent together...
Rob: do you ever want to have sex? like do you have the urge?
Me: honestly....yes
Rob: why dont you have sex then?
Me: im not with the father and i didnt realize the clot was gone until yesterday.
Rob: well you can still have sex. cant you just find someone?
Me: im not a slut!! i have a child inside of me, are you serious? what the hell!!!!
Rob: im just saying you can have sex. its healthy and keeps you in shape. im just saying dont hold it in.
Me: k
Rob: im sure alot of people want to have sex with you.
Me: hahahaha
Rob: no seriously! i will.


I didn't say anything back because I am seriously just DISGUSTED! I can't believe that. I feel so disrespected and I am SO pissed off. Why are people so careless and idiotic? Who the hell is nasty enough to say that to a pregnant girl????? UHHHHH!!!!! I'm furious!!!!

I fucking swear, in my life it NEVER ends. It's always drama drama and someone pisses me off and even more drama. I'm so tired of it! SOSOSOSO tired of it. I'm off for the night. Bye.

That's disgraceful! What age is he?

Oh that's great he just texted me saying that he was only kidding!!!!! HAHAHAH, yeah that's SO funny....what a liar! He's such a jerk. UHHHH.

Urgh!!! what a creep. DELETE DELETE DELETE!

You seem like a lovely girl and you are stunning so i'm sure i can guess why he's saying that. But i completely see where you're coming from!! I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex with anyone but the father of my child!

How ignorant of him to say things like that. I would have asked him who he thinks he is to ask me things like that and it is none of his business.
On a more positive note... Glad to hear the blood clot is gone hun.

what a jerk, indeed! He said he's only joking, but it still is disgusting! I would avoid him!

It's sounds like he ws getting off on asking u those questions, i think he was turnd on, dirty freak!!!

What a complete immature f**kwit, suggest you ignore further texts from this idiot, who needs people like that in their lives?

What an utter creep *shudders*

I told him he wasn't "man enough" for me....not to mention I have a child inside me. He went on to say he didn't mind that at all....AT LEAST UNTIL I WAS IN MY 5 MONTH MARK!!!!

What a pig! At first it upset/angered me but now it's just plain out funny that he thought for one slight second I'd buy into his offer.