Missing OH More?

KJunkie · Apr 14th, 2009, 19:02 PM

So this may seem like a stupid question, I don't know. But my OH works 10 to 12 hours a day and here lately I have just been DREADING him going to work and leaving. And while he is gone I miss him TERRIBLY.

Am I just being needy or is anyone else feeling this way?

Smexi.Mommie · Apr 14th, 2009, 20:28 PM

hormones hunni dont worry

mrso · Apr 14th, 2009, 21:15 PM

My husband is going into the really busy season of work and I am dreading it!!! My husband can put in 16 hour days on a really busy week.

I feel for you!!

BabyBaxter09 · Apr 14th, 2009, 21:31 PM

Ok I am this way too!!! My husband works in law enforcement and he just changed to being an investigator so our schedules just started being exactly opposite. I HATE IT!!! I cant help it. I have actually cried several times. We do not C each other for five days out of the week at all hardly. At bedtime and thats it. I feel ya honey

Seraphim · Apr 14th, 2009, 21:34 PM

Yes!

I've even woken him up in the middle of the night, just for extra snuggling. Can't help it :/

Our schedules aren't tooo bad at the mo, and we just had time off with Easter.

Must be the hormones.

And knowing we're doing THE most magical thing in the world EVER

KJunkie · Apr 14th, 2009, 22:29 PM

Lol, ok. So I feel much better then! I just thought I was being extremely needy. I know he gets tired of hearing me tell him I miss him all the time ... I think. Lol.

MsEmski · Apr 15th, 2009, 05:00 AM

My chap has gone to the States with work for two weeks, and I'm definitely missing him. I've got that hormonal about it that I've started to get sad if he hasn't got in contact enough (even though he has!), or if I feel that he took too long to reply to an email/text...
Bloody hormones! I was initially looking forward to having the house to myself, foolishly thinking that I'd get more sleep as I'd have the whole bed to myself. But it just feels empty, and when the MS has got really bad I've had no-one to look after me.
I do know that he feels left out of the pregnancy being so far away, especially as I've been regularly hearing the heartbeat on a doppler and he's only heard it once when I recorded it and emailed it to him.

Hope we all get over it soon :-)

aimee-lou · Apr 15th, 2009, 05:50 AM

I hate being away from my hubby. He makes me so happy and being away from him is torture sometimes.

He works shifts and weekends and has random days off in the week whereas I work Mon-Fri 9-5 so sometimes we hardly see each other, like tomorrow when I leave at 8 to go to work he's still asleep, he leaves at 12, I return by 6, he returns by 9 and we're in bed by 10.30! so a grand total of 1.5 hours together.

I feel almost lost without him at the moment and he says he just wants to look after me....he's already very much a daddy in his mind I think!

So, in short, no you're not alone at all!

ClaireLouise · Apr 15th, 2009, 05:53 AM

Bless you! I have my needy moments but right now (he has been off work for 8 days holiday) i cant wait for him to get BACK to work haha! Im loving my me time right now!

Do i sound mean??? Hormonies tee hee!

AtomicPink · Apr 15th, 2009, 13:21 PM

I kept changing my mind. I missed him, then couldn't stand him! lol

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KJunkie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 640	Missing OH More? So this may seem like a stupid question, I don't know. But my OH works 10 to 12 hours a day and here lately I have just been DREADING him going to work and leaving. And while he is gone I miss him TERRIBLY. Am I just being needy or is anyone else feeling this way?

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Apr 14th, 2009, 20:28 PM	#2
Smexi.Mommie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Grand forks,BC Posts: 125	hormones hunni dont worry

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Apr 14th, 2009, 21:15 PM	#3
mrso Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: WY Posts: 1,406	My husband is going into the really busy season of work and I am dreading it!!! My husband can put in 16 hour days on a really busy week. I feel for you!!

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Apr 14th, 2009, 21:31 PM	#4
BabyBaxter09 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 22	Ok I am this way too!!! My husband works in law enforcement and he just changed to being an investigator so our schedules just started being exactly opposite. I HATE IT!!! I cant help it. I have actually cried several times. We do not C each other for five days out of the week at all hardly. At bedtime and thats it. I feel ya honey

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Seraphim Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Dartmoor, Devon Posts: 7,082	Yes! I've even woken him up in the middle of the night, just for extra snuggling. Can't help it :/ Our schedules aren't tooo bad at the mo, and we just had time off with Easter. Must be the hormones. And knowing we're doing THE most magical thing in the world EVER

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Apr 14th, 2009, 22:29 PM	#6
KJunkie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Missouri Posts: 640	Lol, ok. So I feel much better then! I just thought I was being extremely needy. I know he gets tired of hearing me tell him I miss him all the time ... I think. Lol.

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Apr 15th, 2009, 05:00 AM	#7
MsEmski Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 883	My chap has gone to the States with work for two weeks, and I'm definitely missing him. I've got that hormonal about it that I've started to get sad if he hasn't got in contact enough (even though he has!), or if I feel that he took too long to reply to an email/text... Bloody hormones! I was initially looking forward to having the house to myself, foolishly thinking that I'd get more sleep as I'd have the whole bed to myself. But it just feels empty, and when the MS has got really bad I've had no-one to look after me. I do know that he feels left out of the pregnancy being so far away, especially as I've been regularly hearing the heartbeat on a doppler and he's only heard it once when I recorded it and emailed it to him. Hope we all get over it soon :-)

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Apr 15th, 2009, 05:50 AM	#8
aimee-lou Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Norfolk - UK Posts: 6,176	I hate being away from my hubby. He makes me so happy and being away from him is torture sometimes. He works shifts and weekends and has random days off in the week whereas I work Mon-Fri 9-5 so sometimes we hardly see each other, like tomorrow when I leave at 8 to go to work he's still asleep, he leaves at 12, I return by 6, he returns by 9 and we're in bed by 10.30! so a grand total of 1.5 hours together. I feel almost lost without him at the moment and he says he just wants to look after me....he's already very much a daddy in his mind I think! So, in short, no you're not alone at all!

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Apr 15th, 2009, 05:53 AM	#9
ClaireLouise Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 944	Bless you! I have my needy moments but right now (he has been off work for 8 days holiday) i cant wait for him to get BACK to work haha! Im loving my me time right now! Do i sound mean??? Hormonies tee hee!

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Apr 15th, 2009, 13:21 PM	#10
AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,122	I kept changing my mind. I missed him, then couldn't stand him! lol

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