married or not?

teeny-j · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:36 AM

On the news just now they are talking about babies being born out of wed-lock.

apparently for the first time more than half the babies born in the country are born to unmarried parents.

they way that i see is that as long as the child is loved and is healthy is doesnt matter but just thought it would make a good poll!!!

**Arcanegirl** · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:39 AM

Not married, but engaged

AtomicPink · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:40 AM

Same here, been engaged for 4 years and I certainly would be married if it wasnt for the huge cost!!!!!!!!

star-dust · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:42 AM

Married!!

baby.love · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:44 AM

See its a hard one for me as i have his name and we exchanged rings, but we done it ourselves and not officially! I dont want to do the whole wedding thing as my dad passed away 10 years ago and since then i have sworn i will never do it!

On paper(deedpoll) i am Mrs Love but we never got properly married lol

firegal · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:45 AM

Not married, not engaged.... I was engaged once (to someone else) and that really put me off the whole thing, I'm in no rush to do it again! I learned the hard way that just cos someone wants to marry you doesn't mean that they'll treat you right.

Boyfriend and I will probably get married one day, just to make things a little easier with legalities and stuff, but if so it will be just us, our little one, the celebrant, and a beach somewhere

ClaireLouise · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:46 AM

Engaged also. As long as you and your o/h are happy, i dont see the rush :-)

QTPie · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by teeny-j

they way that i see is that as long as the child is loved and is healthy is doesnt matter

Completely agreed.

QT

karentia · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:47 AM

well i was married but got divorced ! me an dp have been together just over 2yrs an marrige to me at the moment is not important again !

sweetcheeks85 · Mar 12th, 2009, 09:47 AM

Me and my OH are not married but have been engaged for 2 years.

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:36 AM	#1
teeny-j Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: aberdeenshire, scotland Posts: 365	married or not? On the news just now they are talking about babies being born out of wed-lock. apparently for the first time more than half the babies born in the country are born to unmarried parents. they way that i see is that as long as the child is loved and is healthy is doesnt matter but just thought it would make a good poll!!!

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:39 AM	#2
Arcanegirl Pregnant (Expecting) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Glasgow Posts: 25,663	Not married, but engaged

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:40 AM	#3
AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,122	Same here, been engaged for 4 years and I certainly would be married if it wasnt for the huge cost!!!!!!!!

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:42 AM	#4
star-dust Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: kernow Posts: 2,086	Married!!

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:44 AM	#5
baby.love Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: In my house! Posts: 8,288	See its a hard one for me as i have his name and we exchanged rings, but we done it ourselves and not officially! I dont want to do the whole wedding thing as my dad passed away 10 years ago and since then i have sworn i will never do it! On paper(deedpoll) i am Mrs Love but we never got properly married lol

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:45 AM	#6
firegal Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: London Posts: 1,278	Not married, not engaged.... I was engaged once (to someone else) and that really put me off the whole thing, I'm in no rush to do it again! I learned the hard way that just cos someone wants to marry you doesn't mean that they'll treat you right. Boyfriend and I will probably get married one day, just to make things a little easier with legalities and stuff, but if so it will be just us, our little one, the celebrant, and a beach somewhere

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:46 AM	#7
ClaireLouise Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Manchester Posts: 944	Engaged also. As long as you and your o/h are happy, i dont see the rush :-)

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:47 AM	#9
karentia Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: kent ,uk Posts: 784	well i was married but got divorced ! me an dp have been together just over 2yrs an marrige to me at the moment is not important again !

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Mar 12th, 2009, 09:47 AM	#10
sweetcheeks85 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Scotland Posts: 1,983	Me and my OH are not married but have been engaged for 2 years.

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