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BUMP5-ZA · Nov 12th, 2008, 02:20 AM

Just phoned our hospital - going to the lab in the next hour to do the blood test - then i have to wait two hours for a result. . . . . . .

BUMP5-ZA · Nov 12th, 2008, 06:04 AM

Ok - I am back from hospital - I have to wait two hours now . . . kinda scary . . . never thought two hours could feel soooo long. . . .

PeanutBean · Nov 12th, 2008, 11:02 AM

What's the verdict?

nataliecn · Nov 12th, 2008, 17:12 PM

how did it go hun??
i know everything is a shock now, but you've found a great forum, with a lot of supportive people to answer questions, give opinions and best of all, it's an amazing support system.

Ria_Rose · Nov 13th, 2008, 09:52 AM

How did it go sweetie? Did you get the results yet?

BUMP5-ZA · Nov 14th, 2008, 07:50 AM

Thanks to all that replied to my thread - I just thought i would let you all know that my blood test came back from the hospital - and it was negative - although my home one said positive - after being in shock - and all this waiting - and all this trying to figure it out - my fiance ( to be ) and I got all excited about this and now it's not ! One thing puzzling me thou is that my cycle still hasnt started ???
Giving it some time . . . ( now actually hoping it doesnt start ) other wise i would be joining the TTC group... can you beleive it ?? after not even wanting to have another for a while . . . lol . . . another thing is my 'symptoms' arent gowing away and i know this sounds crazy - but my stomac is standing extremely bloated . . . Think i am going insane

Ria_Rose · Nov 14th, 2008, 09:51 AM

If your period still doesn't start go back to the Doctors, I know you can get false negatives, but never heard of a false positive before.

Maybe you're disappointment is a sign. Now you know how you and your OH would feel if you were pregnant. So now you can plan for the future, and at a time when you are ready you could try again.

You can always join WTC until your wedding, if you are still concerned about what people will think.

Do try to talk to someone about your previous losses if you are still worried. Some times just talking will help.

PeanutBean · Nov 14th, 2008, 11:10 AM

Ditto what Ria said, I've not heard of false positives before, even for home tests. Not to sound scare-mongering but there are complications that can give a positive result and depending what the blood test was actually testing might have been masked. Best to keep an eye on things and do another test or pop back to the doctors if things don't feel normal soon.

BUMP5-ZA · Nov 15th, 2008, 02:39 AM

oh dear - so you guys think - that the positive is actualy 'positive' and that the blood test negative is actualy 'false' . GIGGLE . That is actually funny . . .I counted my days again to make sure i got all my dates right i did it about 3 or 4 times - and my dates are def right I am 'late' a week now - i am having funny cramps thou - not period cramps,they almost like constipation cramps ( sowi - didnt know how else to put it ) We went to walk on the beach this morning as the kids slept by granny last night and i got soooo tired??? I really feel like i am going insane and imagening all these things...

If i am not i am def going to move along to the WTC section.As we would probably only have to wait 6 months before we can TTC .

Nov 12th, 2008, 02:20 AM	#11
BUMP5-ZA Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South Africa Posts: 781	Just phoned our hospital - going to the lab in the next hour to do the blood test - then i have to wait two hours for a result. . . . . . .

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Nov 12th, 2008, 06:04 AM	#12
BUMP5-ZA Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South Africa Posts: 781	Ok - I am back from hospital - I have to wait two hours now . . . kinda scary . . . never thought two hours could feel soooo long. . . .

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Nov 12th, 2008, 11:02 AM	#13
PeanutBean Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: Greater Manchester Posts: 18,226	What's the verdict?

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Nov 12th, 2008, 17:12 PM	#14
nataliecn Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 11,874	how did it go hun?? i know everything is a shock now, but you've found a great forum, with a lot of supportive people to answer questions, give opinions and best of all, it's an amazing support system.

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Nov 13th, 2008, 09:52 AM	#15
Ria_Rose Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Swindon, UK Posts: 2,419	How did it go sweetie? Did you get the results yet?

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Nov 14th, 2008, 07:50 AM	#16
BUMP5-ZA Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South Africa Posts: 781	Thanks to all that replied to my thread - I just thought i would let you all know that my blood test came back from the hospital - and it was negative - although my home one said positive - after being in shock - and all this waiting - and all this trying to figure it out - my fiance ( to be ) and I got all excited about this and now it's not ! One thing puzzling me thou is that my cycle still hasnt started ??? Giving it some time . . . ( now actually hoping it doesnt start ) other wise i would be joining the TTC group... can you beleive it ?? after not even wanting to have another for a while . . . lol . . . another thing is my 'symptoms' arent gowing away and i know this sounds crazy - but my stomac is standing extremely bloated . . . Think i am going insane

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Nov 14th, 2008, 09:51 AM	#17
Ria_Rose Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Swindon, UK Posts: 2,419	If your period still doesn't start go back to the Doctors, I know you can get false negatives, but never heard of a false positive before. Maybe you're disappointment is a sign. Now you know how you and your OH would feel if you were pregnant. So now you can plan for the future, and at a time when you are ready you could try again. You can always join WTC until your wedding, if you are still concerned about what people will think. Do try to talk to someone about your previous losses if you are still worried. Some times just talking will help.

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Nov 14th, 2008, 11:10 AM	#18
PeanutBean Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: Greater Manchester Posts: 18,226	Ditto what Ria said, I've not heard of false positives before, even for home tests. Not to sound scare-mongering but there are complications that can give a positive result and depending what the blood test was actually testing might have been masked. Best to keep an eye on things and do another test or pop back to the doctors if things don't feel normal soon.

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Nov 15th, 2008, 02:39 AM	#19
BUMP5-ZA Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: South Africa Posts: 781	oh dear - so you guys think - that the positive is actualy 'positive' and that the blood test negative is actualy 'false' . GIGGLE . That is actually funny . . .I counted my days again to make sure i got all my dates right i did it about 3 or 4 times - and my dates are def right I am 'late' a week now - i am having funny cramps thou - not period cramps,they almost like constipation cramps ( sowi - didnt know how else to put it ) We went to walk on the beach this morning as the kids slept by granny last night and i got soooo tired??? I really feel like i am going insane and imagening all these things... If i am not i am def going to move along to the WTC section.As we would probably only have to wait 6 months before we can TTC .

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