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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 12:28 PM   #1
tone
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I Cant Believe What I've Just Been Asked!


Basically, my mums friend is staying with us a the moment as she's just split up with her boyfriend and he threw her out so she had nowhere to live, so we let her stay with us! Shes been crying every hour of everyday! And of course everyone feels terrible for her!

But i just sitting browsing through BnB when she walked through the door, tears rolling down her face! She saw me and came over and said very quietly 'Antonia can i talk to you', now i've been trying to keep out the way a little bit as to be honest i really dont know what to say to her or how to make her feel better. So anway we went into the other room and sat down and she immediatly started crying and saying 'Oh god wat have i done, i cant believe i'm goin to ask you this' i was trying to comfort her and i really didnt have a clue what she was going to say.
Anyway it turns out she had been over to her ex's house and told him she was pregnant. She obviously isnt. And then she said again 'I cant believe im asking this.im sick' by the point i seriously thought she was going to ask for my baby!!!
She wanted me to do a pregnancy test to show her ex!!!!!!!!

I understand shes upsetand everything but that really isnt fair on that poor man!!

I didnt know what to say!! I was shocked. I undertstand shes desperate to get him back but i thought this was a bit far! She was then going to go sleep with whoever to get pregnant so he would never find out!!!

Thankfuly i got my mum to sort her out, but imagine a baby being born into a situation like that! She would have done it if my mum hadnt stopped her!!

Gaaah!!


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 12:30 PM   #2
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wow thats a new 1! can't beleive she actually asked you that!


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 12:35 PM   #3
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Basically, my mums friend is staying with us a the moment as she's just split up with her boyfriend and he threw her out so she had nowhere to live, so we let her stay with us! Shes been crying every hour of everyday! And of course everyone feels terrible for her!

But i just sitting browsing through BnB when she walked through the door, tears rolling down her face! She saw me and came over and said very quietly 'Antonia can i talk to you', now i've been trying to keep out the way a little bit as to be honest i really dont know what to say to her or how to make her feel better. So anway we went into the other room and sat down and she immediatly started crying and saying 'Oh god wat have i done, i cant believe i'm goin to ask you this' i was trying to comfort her and i really didnt have a clue what she was going to say.
Anyway it turns out she had been over to her ex's house and told him she was pregnant. She obviously isnt. And then she said again 'I cant believe im asking this.im sick' by the point i seriously thought she was going to ask for my baby!!!
She wanted me to do a pregnancy test to show her ex!!!!!!!!

I understand shes upsetand everything but that really isnt fair on that poor man!!

I didnt know what to say!! I was shocked. I undertstand shes desperate to get him back but i thought this was a bit far! She was then going to go sleep with whoever to get pregnant so he would never find out!!!

Thankfuly i got my mum to sort her out, but imagine a baby being born into a situation like that! She would have done it if my mum hadnt stopped her!!

Gaaah!!
OMG! Yeah, that is a little extreme...to say the least!

A good book for her self-esteem - Wayne Dyer's "Erroneous Zones". No person should want to be with another individual who does not want them the same way.


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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 12:38 PM   #4
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Omg thats outrageous.

On e-bay once sum1 was sellin a positive pregnancy test, thats just mad.

And the seller had wrote, it may get ur boyf to wait on u hand and foot.

Madness.

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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 12:54 PM   #5
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Blimey! That's the sort of thing that gives women a bad name! I can't believe people that manipulative really exist!


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 12:58 PM   #6
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Wow she must be pretty desperate.
But seriousley, what is she going to get out of a relationship that only one person wants to be in, its going to end in heart break for her either way, better sooner rather than later.


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 13:11 PM   #7
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..... I'm stunned!!


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 13:14 PM   #8
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wow. that is pretty intense, and not very nice of her to put you in that position.


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 13:20 PM   #9
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It seems like the whole desperation thing made her loose her senses. I feel abit sorry for her at the fact she would get pregnant by any tom, dick or harry to try keep him. This whole thing would have turned out very very badly. Thanx to you getting your mum to sort her out a baby won't be born into this mess.


 
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Old Sep 19th, 2008, 13:30 PM   #10
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Wow i've never heard that one before. God you must have felt so akward hunni. Lieing about pregnancy is one thing but trying to fake a preg test is another!!

xx


 
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