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Jun 20th, 2008, 02:07 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  If your little one turns out gay/bi-sexual..
I was just wondering how everybody will deal with this as. Please no debates just state how you would handle it, I know this is a touchy subject and I don't wish to start anything big.
As for me, I would handle it fine I don't mind if my son decides to be with a 500 lb man as long as he's happy.
Unless he's like 16 and his significant other is like 40.. |
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Jun 20th, 2008, 02:10 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | OH and I had this discussion, and neither of us would be bothered in the slightest. As long as my child is happy, that's the main thing.
Incidentally, my church runs pre-marriage meetings for couples one a week. My reverend opened a discussion one day on this very topic. The woman replied much the same as I have just done, whereas the man said 'No son of mine is going to be a fucking fag.' It was amazing, that these people came so close to marriage and yet they didn't have the same fundamental views. Turned out he was racist too. Don't know if they ever got married. | | | | Status: Online
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Jun 20th, 2008, 02:15 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I would handle it fine if my little one turned out gay/lesbian or bi-sextual because to me the only thing that matters is his/her happiness.. My Boyfriend on the other hand might say other wise i dont think so thou he is pretty open minded about most things ha ha... it might be differant if it was his son than his daughter~ | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 20th, 2008, 02:22 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | No problems here. Just want my kids to be happy and healthy through all stages of life. |
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Jun 20th, 2008, 02:26 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | No problem here. Infact I think my step-son is gay, and we let him be himself at home. I think it's better that he feel safe at home, then scared to be himself |
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Jun 20th, 2008, 08:02 AM
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| No problem really.
It's not like they've changed or anything. They'll still be the same child.
To be honest it would take me a while to get used to it but I most certainly wouldn't have a problem with it. It's their happiness that is most important to me. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jun 20th, 2008, 08:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | As long as they're happy, I'm happy.  |
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Jun 20th, 2008, 08:25 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I agree with Chelle, as long as theyre happy im happy, on the other hand i think my OH would find it a lot harder to deal with than me |
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Jun 20th, 2008, 08:48 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I wont lie.... would find it very very difficult to deal with!!! |
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Jun 20th, 2008, 09:10 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | It would be difficult to deal with but not a problem in the slightest. Although would probably turn out to be another reason for my ex to have nothing to do with his son.
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